My question is when is it too frendly? Cuz a femalefriend of mine started talking bout how she is thinking of going back with her ex, and it felt like even though i dont want her sexually, our relationship was WAY too friendly. No sexual tension what so ever.
Is there a point where instead of giving you pre selection she makes you seem friend material to all other girls??

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lo has dicho tu mismo,its when theres no sexual tension at all when she has totally desexualised you in her eyes thats when its too friendly.

Gracias por la respuesta,
Yo so how do you handle this then? Do you have any tips abut that??

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de nada hombre, i would answer you in spanish but its good other people read this too who maybe dont speak spanish,go no contact for a couple weeks dont answer any of her texts calls etc and dont call her text her either if you have to see her (eg she works with you or you see her on the bus everyday) remain very aloof dont talk much at all,act distant,then all of a sudden reopen her and use jealousy and push/pull ALOT along with domiance make sure she notices a change in you (start a new hobbie dress better etc)(social proof) and then game her like anyone else

She has other guy friends aparently. She has even spent a night at one of thems lately.
So i guess this is normal for her. Anyway shes not really hot so i never gamed her but i guess its time to do so or else imma be her gay friend. Thats not good.

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It seems like it has already got to a point where it is to friendly, however, you can test this out for sure if you are A ok with upsetting her maybe and B a little bit of a dick.

Invite her out for a drink, also, invite out a girl you like for a date, head to the same venue. Now, once all parties are there, play of Date against Friend. If friend get jealous, you know she likes you. If she does not, then you doesnt like you, and you use her as pre selection in order to better get date. (justify both of there attendance by telling them the other just called last min and wanted to talk, sorry)

jaja pues eso,y te preocupes mucho si no es muy guapa,que siempre hay mejores,como vas con el game en general? and thats a good idea to test her interest level maybe shes not desexualised you completely or at all ?

Wait wait this is not a getting out of the friendzone situation though, i putted her on the friend zone first but idk if i did it right. My relationship with her is great i dont mind helping her with her boy issues.

My concern is how this affects the other girls view of me. I mean i have many other female friends at college but none of them have desexualiced me, so its good cuz it kicks pre selection, but idk if this particular priendship is kickkng pre selection or just makeing other girls desexualice me too.

What do you think?

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vale vale puess..... no se hermano no puedo ver como te trata,si ella le gustas pues entonces por seguro tienes ''preselection'' pero si ella solamente es una amiga tuyos y no hay tension sexual entonces puede que no tienes preselection,y depende de como te trata puede que hace que las otra chicas empiezan a mirarte como solo amigo,pero no lo se porque no puedo ver como te trata,vale la pena intentar usar el ''game'' porque si ella le gustas tendras ''preselection'' y habalra de ti a sus amigas

perdona mi espanol mucho ingles no es bueno

Oh, different story then.

Ok, after some though i belive there is no such thing as negative pre selection. When AFC adam got a group of girls he once told them he would never hit on them, so they desexualised him, other girls however did not. He still used the non-sexualised girls to flip the preselection switch with new commers, as this was mostly in clubs where conversation is stilted by sound, i would not be able to give a factual answer in the context of day game.

Though, having a girl-friend, is always good as at a base-line it shows your a normal, non killer, who has friends and can talk to girls. Though, just to test her reaction to sexual stimuli, get her drunk-ish, get a drinking game going, and talk some sexual crap about and see what she throws out.

Long story short though, a bloody good problem to have. Keep her around untill she starts saying "awwww sint he cute" whilst pinching your cheek.

excuse my manners this is pretty much what i said

ok ok well..... i dont know man i cant see how she treats you,if she likes you then im sure you will have preselection but if shes just a friend with no sexual tension its possible that you dont have preselection(but it does make you look normal good tip JJ)and depending how she treats you it could make other girls see you as a AFC or just a friend,but i cant really tell as i dont know how you guys react,i think you should try game her til she likes you and have her as a orbitar and you can use her for jealously preselection etc(depends on your morals i guess )

Haha nice translation right there. Yo thanks for the answers it has been really helpful, im going to try to introduce some sexual tension and see what happendss

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