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| tonystark88 | PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 6:37 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Aug 18, 2012 3:31 pm Posts: 76 | | Hey,
I had this girl I hooked up with just got out a relationship. Hung out a couple times but she wasn't ready to be more. I said ok and moved on but she begged me to stay friends. So now I don't really care I ask her to chill sometimes with groups knowing she is going to not go. She answers when I text but all this I really wanna be friends is superficial .
I've been ignoring her but eventually it will fade. Do I call her out I'd say no.
At the End of the day not every girl has to be mine but she seemed cool to chill with.
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| Hunter_Foxe | PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 6:54 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Tue Sep 18, 2012 8:24 pm Posts: 2044 Location: Nottingham, UK | | Use her as a pivot if you're cool with her making out with other guy's in front of you.
If not, cut her loose and don't be friends.
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| tonystark88 | PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 6:59 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Aug 18, 2012 3:31 pm Posts: 76 | | Pivot I'm cool. It's not like I'm emotionally involved big time . Just wanted to take her out but she just got out of a relationship. I get it, it was too much . Then she really wanted to be friends message after message. So now what .
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| Hunter_Foxe | PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 7:06 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Tue Sep 18, 2012 8:24 pm Posts: 2044 Location: Nottingham, UK | | Just say you don't want to be friends but low commitment fuck buddies instead
"call me when you're horny" etc.
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| tonystark88 | PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 7:11 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Aug 18, 2012 3:31 pm Posts: 76 | | She isn't interested and either am I. I'm cool with dating her and if not let's be friends. I got others to be fwbs with. My issue is she really wanted to be friends but now doesn't act like it
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| Hunter_Foxe | PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 7:55 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Tue Sep 18, 2012 8:24 pm Posts: 2044 Location: Nottingham, UK | | Right. So you want to be friends with her, she agreed, but then doesn't act like a friend.
I'd say move on bro. You can't force the friendship. Remember this is a pickup forum, not how to make friends...
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| tonystark88 | PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 7:59 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Aug 18, 2012 3:31 pm Posts: 76 | | Lol true. Well I was trying to game her for the long run
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