hey guys i have within the last 6 months learnt game quite well and seem to be doing quite well but am quite confused so i met up with this HB7 and did some bouncing(varouis locations to build rapport) and she was giving me clear IOIs and plus kino but she was totally quite the whole time and when i talked to her she gave very closed sentances and didnt try to continue the convo it was only after like 2 hours of almost complete silence she asked a couple of questions and then returned to silence i have never had this happen and it got me pissed off i pretty much got annoyed and it didnt go so well after that not a diaster but not as i planned .. its not a problem will proberly re open in a couple weeks but i have no idea how to deal with this girl my main strong points are convo,(she is a friend of my sisters and when she is with my sister or her friends she talks just like anyone else)she pretty much made advances for me the first time we met and i k closed so now im confused and would love to hear some advice from you guys ?

Just take her out again and escalate. She probably wants it, too. Conversation not that important. What is important is congruence, escalation, being unapologetic and not sucking up to her in any way or form. So just escalate unapologetically.

My last girlfriend was just the same.. insanely quiet. All the time. It took nearly four dates to actually open up and talk. If she is still seeing you she is letting you be the alpha male. You have the opportunity to continue your rapport. When I continued to take her on takes her shield slowly disappeared. We kept holding hands showing other types of Kino. I waited far too long for a kiss but I felt at the time the same way you do now. I gave her too much space, when I asked her about it afterwards she told me she thought I understood she wanted the first kiss of the relationship sooner.

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2 hours of almost complete silence ?? you must be a silence person yourself right? that would scare the hell outta ladies

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hahah no aaron not complete silence but it was like i would ask her something and she would answer with closed SPAM so it was extremly hard to talk to her i was getting pissed off so i focused more on body language,maybe shes just shy after a while i got very pissed off and im pretty sure she could tell im not bothered because even when it was going not so well she was still showing IOIs,shes at my sisters alot so ill just 'accidently' run into her there and re open and set up another date.thinking about it now i think she was just shy i should have not let it bug me and escalated
i just never had this problem before.
how was your first date spacebar? and any advice on acting more mature would also be nice thanks for the advice so far guys