So I was driving and asked for directions to the girl in the lane over to me, I noticed she was attractive so after asking her I joked and told her to come with me (jokingly) to the museum I was going to, she said what are you doing there? I said going to meet friends. Than asked where I was from? We were from the same town. She said she was going to a bar and when were done to come hang with her. I said what's your number, and name, than I drove off. It actually worked. Now the next step is getting her. So I texted her, 4 hours later.

Me: Hey, it was kinda random bumping into you, at the red light. Are you always this friendly to strangers
Her: Haha depends on the stranger, but I usually try to be friendly most of the time
Me: Btw I'm Pink; I had an awesome time at the museum, how'd your evening go.
Her Nice to meet you Pink. I'm Jane. Glad you had a good night, mine was wicked busy but good as well, had some of my favorite clients come in tonight.
Me:I just got back in Blah Town, everyone's celebrating the hockey game - it's insane!! You seem pretty passionate about your work
Her: Oh yea I heard that Blank team won! Where in new haven do you live abouts? Yea I like my jobs. Gotta find aspects of everything that make you happy / you enjoy
Her:
Her: Life would be way too depressing otherwise
(30 mins go by cuz I was driving)
Her: Haha I sound like such a new age hippie.
Me: It sounded more like a rosta ideaology lol
Me: Btw, I just noticed something about you.
Her: Ohhh yea and what's that ?
Me: I can tell you're quite intelligent and down to earth. I like that

NO RESPONSE. NEXT DAY.
Her: Haha oh well thank you
Me: I noticed more, but that's all I'll say for now lol. So, what are your passions in life.

NEXT DAY.
Her:
Her: Hey sorry I didn't get back to yesterday. It was my one day off and it ended up being much much busier then I expected. Hmm I would say working with anim
Her: als is definitely another passion (I'm also a vet techs assistant in Blah town), music, going to concerts and shows and what not. How about you?
Me: What made you want to work with animals? By day, I'm a musician - staying here until we go on tour - by night I'm a secret agent looking for a sidekick - feeling adventurous?
Her: Hm I'm not sure actually. Just always loved them and always been really into biology and medicine. I'm still semi planning on nursing school maybe next y
Her: ear. We'll see. Ohhh musician eh. Ive heard of your type haha what do you play? And I'm always down for an adventure.
Me: You'll have to do better than that missy - I heard it all lol. So this week, I'm going to be celebrating - might have a few free hours - how's your week looking?
Her: Haha don't you fret, I'm just warming up. Oh I'm always running around like crazy during the week but I have Thursday and sunday night off and Friday I'm
Her: out of work at 10. Whatcha celebrating?
Me: My band recently received some good news from a label!! I'm going to to do some shopping on broadway St, How's Thursday at 7?
Her: Oh awesome ! Congrats! I'm free Thursday at 7

IT GOT LATE SO I STOPED TEXTING. MAYBE SHOULD HAVE WENT MORE BUT I DIDN'T WANT HER TO THINK THAT IM UP ALL NIGHT TEXTING. SO I TEXT HER THE FOLLOWING MORNING (TODAY)

Me: Awesome, we're gonna' hv a blast! Meet me at urban outfitters.

NO RESPONSE.... END.

Maybe I let the convo go too long (2 days) but idk, what did I do wrong and if she don't text back tomorrow what should I do?

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Ok I might be wrong. But can I ask you why did you do this ?

I quote you: "She said she was going to a bar and when were done to come hang with her"

And then you got her number. Instead of the long conversation why didn't you just go out with her when she was done with her friends at the bar. Why do you make this so difficult. A simple "Hey this is ... done with museums lets meet at..." would be so much better.

Maybe I'm inexperienced with this but I think in this case you should have used the number for only logistical reasons.

I hope she'll respond to you though. Good luck

uhm, let me try to guess why, maybe its night time and you stop texting without saying bye, so she might think maybe something is going on with you. maybe your girlfriend just came? what you think?

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Well I was in a part of town far from my home and had to get back in town to see another girl.
So she just texted me back at 11:00 today saying, "Hey sorry I'm notorious for writing messages and never sending them. But yea sounds good. I'll see you then "

1) Should I respond to that or just say nothing - would she know, I'm going to be there? Or maybe I'll just say, "Make sure to wear something cute and comfortable - see you than!" What should I say here.

2) P.S. IMPORTANT: By her saying, "But yea sounds good" it seemed kinda odd to me like, she doesn't really want to go there and she's like bored about it, idk? I guess she rather go clubbing but I'm not a club guy. I'm going shopping for clothes and maybe get something to eat, (she probably been there before) I mean is that a bad idea, I couldn't think of anything to do in town that's open late in a college town. What so you guys think

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Just go, don't give in to her when she seems not to be up to your ideas. Giving in shows weakness and neediness, you'll easily notice if she likes your first 'date' once you see her in person again and if things don't work out just end it and go find your next bird.

By the way: "Make sure to wear something cute and comfortable - see you thEn!"

I mean I know it's not an adventurous date but I couldn't think if anything - what would you guys recommend next time?

Does it look like I said anything wrong, or does it looked like she's not interested? She seemed invested because she texted me back.

INPORTANT: how should I act with her on the date? Like after I buy clothes what should I do after? Just walk around? Go to another store - I'd like some good idea's that experienced pua's know, will work.

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