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PostPosted: Tue Apr 16, 2013 8:28 pm 
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What up boys. Long-time lurker here looking for some advice. What is the general consensus on using money as a cornerstone in your pickup game? I’m not talking about buying girls drinks, as that was the first thing I learned to do whilst picking up girls, but I mean finding ways to flaunt cash and expensive belongings as a way of impressing the girl.

Here is an example: I was in a bar with my boy the other night, and I wanted to run some game on these two ladies standing at the bar. I happened to be flush with cash at the time, and when I pulled out my wallet to buy them a drink, one of them noticed the greenbacks plumping out my pocketbook. She immediately made a joke along the lines of “whoa, big spender!” and we were off. We haven’t hooked up yet, but I got her email address and am about to send her the follow up email today.

What are some other tactics for this? I’m not the richest guy in the world, but I can afford some nice things. Maybe a not-so-obvious version of “oh, I dropped my Beamer keys” or “can you check my Breitling to see if the time is right”?

I appreciate the help, guys. This forum has been so valuable to my game since I discovered it.
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 4:34 am 
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Look at it like this: most women say they are attracted to confidence. So being confident will get those women to want you more than they would if you lacked confidence. If you rely on demonstrating wealth, the women who will notice most, and be most drawn to you, are the ones who want a rich man. These are golddiggers. Even if you aren't buying girls shit when you meet them, there will be an expectation. Fortunately being cool is free. So be cool.

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PostPosted: Wed Apr 24, 2013 11:18 am 
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In after tyler rsd ha.

But essentially you are falling into a provider frame, even if she likes you, why would she fuck you straight away if you are offering her free stuff. She will go out on dates get gifts and basically use her sexual attractiveness to get stuff out of you. And use sex as a bargaining chip so will put out eventually but as exchange for providing.

Another thing I don't get is how so many guys think money makes the difference, if you went out to a bar how would a chick infer you were rich without you bragging about it.

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