SORRY FOR LONG POST but i feel the back ground is needed...

i was in a LTR for 2 n half years, we broke up around 6 weeks ago...we never really did the no contact thing we have the same friends taste and social circles even when i tried it just didnt work, now she has been sleeping with this other guy bit of a rebound i think as he just got into a relationship with someone else so it has all stopped, and ive been sleeping with a few other girls if im honest lol but..

last week or so ive been turning things back up a little with the EX, started off just hanging out, then massages back at my place then in underwear in bed touching play fighting etc...

now we had a really close night that i went to kiss her she stopped me and said thought we where just being mates fair enough, i back down for a few days then some personal stuff happened in my family and put things a little straight in my head and i told her if your not open to anything else other than friends for ever to get out my life and stay out, she said she couldnt do that ofcourse she was open to it and the past is in the past...a few days after this we ended up cuddled up at mine her topless, me rubbing her back etc,

i told her to kiss my neck and she joked, whats in it for me...i laughed and said nothing for that lol, she said what u mean and i said oh nothing, if u wanna kiss me for real u can, but im not bribing u into it lol...anyway a few moments later she kissed me and went back to cuddles...

then a few mins later i tipped her head up kissed her she kissed me back..(i guess i hit kinda a wall her didnt wanna push to much so thats all that happened)...she went home, arranged another day to meet...

so today we met up, went for a nice meal, came back to mine, ended up in underwear in bed again and she just seemed different closed down again she kept poking me playfully trying to start play fights which we did and the second it got closer backed off again...at one point we where up close nose to nose i kissed her again, and although she didnt stop me or comment she didnt kiss me back either ??!!

im so confused, she will happily cuddle up to me, spend time with me even get into bed in underwear with me!!! and yet she still just says we are close mates! and i cant seem to get her out of this mind frame anymore :/ need some major help i would like her back and would love to get back into her pants tbh!!!

Any advice!!!????

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Freeze out sounds good.

Tell her straight up... "I'm not going to cuddle in our underwear and start kissing if we aren't going to have sex. Its physically frustrating to me to be turned on and not get anything out of it. So let's just hang out."

It will be like flicking her in the forehead lol let her come back to you because now she KNOWS that if she wants to make out and cuddle... She is going to have sex with you. Women will only go as far as they have to in order to spend time with you. If you let her know that she doesn't have the choice that way... She will either stop coming over, then there is really no reason to ever call her again... Or she will have sex with you.