hi guys
I dont approach girls because every time i see a girl, I imagine myself approaching and getting mistreated. maybe she will ignore me? (this has happened before, and I am being LOUD so I dont know why girls are such bitches to me and just ignore and walk away)
maybe she will tell me "get the fuck away from me" ?
getting mistreated is a huge blow to my ego....psychologically, I get hurt. so yeah, I haven't approached in a long time.
I wish I didn't care. But unfortunately, I care. I think I need to change the way I think. I need to not care about the outcome. How can I condition myself to stop caring about what others think of me? I wish I could see myself from an outsider's point of view and not live in my own head so much. Does video therapy work? any other suggestions?

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I have not failed 10,000 times. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work. - Edison

Confidence man you need that before anything.