Hi everyone, basically I started speaking to this girl on line who is a good friend of one of my mates. I had been messaging her a while without meeting her. This weekend just gone we were both on a night out, met up and I managed to pull her. She asked for me to go out by the way. However the conversation was so weird, I think she was a little drunk. Anyway the following day she text me and all was fine and flowing good as usual. The days after I have found myself instigating everything, and she doesn't seem as keen as before. I've even hinted of meeting up however she has just said how she's busy with college work all the time and other stuff. It would be hard to meet up after this week as she goes back to uni and I'm off to america for 3 months very soon. Even my mate who's friends with her has said there's no point messaging her as I was 'just another pull'. He also says shes scared of commitment and all that classic crap. Don't get me wrong I'm not looking for a relationship or anything but it would be good to get to know her better and maybe get the goods haha. I'm so bad with this situations, its happened so many times where a girl has got cold feet with me. How do I play this? Do I leave it a while till I text her or just call it a day. Help a lad in need haha!

sounds like she is just a waste of time. go get somebody else that will give be worth your time and effort then if she notices you with somebody? she will all of a sudden seem interested in you lol.