First of thanks to everyone in the community for helping with my transformation so far, still have extremely far to go but its good to see some progress!

This all started about a week ago! I was down the pub with a few mates, when one of them introduced me to one of her work collegues, who happened to be a HB8 (little Aussie asian chick). So i introduced myself then HB8 and i hit the D-floor for litterally the rest of the night untill they turned the music off and the lights on, at which point i invited her to sit down with me to chat and catch our breaths. She seemed to be enjoying my presence and responding well to kino, then my AFC ways kicked in strong and i made no attempt at a kiss close or even a number close, instead i got up and said "im going to bed, nice to meet you" and started walking off. Luckily one of my buddies was sitting a couple of chairs down from me hooking up with HB8 friend, they both stopped and asked me WTF i was doing just walking away, at which point i turned around and approached HB8 again, still to much of an AFC to kiss close i asked for her number to which she responded "theres no point, theres only 2 weeks left of the season" i said okay then she said she would add me on FB, i have her my name then left and went to bed.

Anyways over the next week we chatted on FB, had some flirty conversations then eventually arranged to have lunch together. So we went to lunch and i invited her back to my place afterwards to watch a movie, to which she responded yes. So were back at mine watching the movie and im attempting some light kino and being an AFC! It comes time that i actually have to go to work so we get up and give each other a hug goodbye and i know she wants to kiss and we do! Yeww! When we kiss i also say "im glad were on the same page". Anyways i bail to go to work and about 2hrs into my shift i get a message from her saying she just wants to be friends! FUCK!

So kinda hoping someone could tell me what i did wrong here!

Cheers, Pie Man

What you did was that you showed her that you weren't fully comfortable and confident with that situation. Which might have her believe that you are new to this stuff and she will think that you will attached to her if she escalates sexually. What you should do is play it cool and do not show interest. Then tell your friend to ask her out saying that him and some of his friends are going and ask her to join. Make sure that you bring some hot female friends along so that you can do the jealousy plot line which should do the trick. Using the jealousy plot line will show her that you are confident and will make her forget about what happened before and this will also cause her to become jealous and that causes attractions.

Hope this helps dude all the best.

Don't worry too much about this... you're getting out there and making moves, and you'll start making good progress so long as you keep focused on your game. Your AFC days are already over... you've recognized the disease and now it's just a matter of eliminating the symptoms.

That said, you can have fun with the situation. I'm a big fan of David DeAngelo's "cocky and funny" technique... I've found that it's absolute f*cking magic... girls just eat it up like it was grade A prime rib or something. There are obviously other techniques to use (Gambler's stealth attraction is one) but C&F is great for setting the frame and building attraction.

Go get David D. ebook "Double Your Dating" (it costs around $14) and start practicing the cocky and funny stuff with lots of girls until you start getting good. You can practice on your HB8 via Facebook if you like, but just keep it friendly and flirtatious, since you don't want to say anything that would embarrass her on her own FB page.

Practice, practice, practice... and, as Lothario says, GOFTW!

Cheers, ~50

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Dude your sooo right about her thinking that i wasnt fully comfortable with the situation! Girls dont just except invites back to ur place to lay on ur bed and watch a movie with no expectations of you escalating, she was giving me a 2nd chance to be a man and i fucked up! All good though im starting to learn from my mistakes and there there will be plenty more women to come!

Cheers bro

Hey first off i love ur statement "Your AFC days are already over... you've recognized the disease and now it's just a matter of eliminating the symptoms" motivating man!

I need to learn more about cocky funny, i think sometimes i take it to far and girls can get offended, annoyed or embarased, but when done right i have seen results. I just watched a bunch of vids on gamblers stealth attraction, gotta say im pretty eager to get out and give that a try!

Cheers for the reply!

Pie Man