I have confidence to approach and open on strangers. but now i'm stuck with the mid-game. i'm always running out of things to say, the conversation just die all the time. It's awful. Also, my voice is funny. Is there anyway to be better with conversations with girls ?

it doesnt matter what you say. its the vibe.

you can talk about anything you want.

it can be random as fuck.

theres no need for a transition fuck it.

i want you to talk to girls about your dead goldfish.
try it, nothing freakin matters

i think its you just limiting yourself on what to say cuz ur afraid what they might think.

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whats wrong with your voice?

i have the same problem i just came back from sarging opened about 3 sets and i just managed to open but after i was like right how do i get them interested i need someone to help!

my voice just sounds funny, to be honest that makes me kinda popular at school, but it also makes me feel uncomfortable.

I know that 90% of the conversation is not based on words, but the vibe and other craps. You can talk about jack shit, but it's not gonna get you laid. My problem is, I always makes the conversation a boring ass, it both suffocates me and the girl. I remember once, I talked to this girl and I just kept on asking her question, it's like a freaking interview. It was tedious and shit.

well you know ur mistakes so you should know how to improve yourself

- Less questions

but now I figured out why ur midgame sucks...

I think the reason why ur running out of things to say is because ur OUTCOME DEPENDANT

learn how to free yourself from winning or failing and just have fun being present in the moment
with her instead of thinking of getting ur fucking dick in her puss.

- learn to have FREEDOM FROM OUTCOME.

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Stop caring if THEY are interested. See if YOU are interested.

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yeah, i should definitely learn to be present at the moment, and enjoy the progress, instead of focusing too much on the outcome. But how can I learn it? when you have nothing in common with the person and you dont have anything to say, or you dont know what to say.

Stop trying to find things in common and learn how to bring a girl into your world, YOUR reality instead. Why do girls fantasise about being "swept off their feet"? Because it's an exciting, unexplored adventure. Right now, youre not providing that fantasy.

You need to stop qualifying yourself. That means stop thinking that she is gonna say "OMG, you like Coldplay too? I want sex with you NOW!!!" in fact, it will more often than not put you in the friend zone. Lead every interaction. Make it clear you have high standards and she needs to meet them if she wants to be lucky enough to get the chance to date you.

Opposites attract. Submissive females (which is the majority of women) are attracted to dominant males. Be dominant.

That is an interesting point, I should really figure out what is my reality and how to bring her into my world. But is it true that we more likely to like someone who has more common with us. But you did indeed provide a good point that I should think more about.

Good posts thus far...quite a bit repetitive...on the same advice but if I may add one thing...remember it's a game and you learn to fail before you learn to win. Also progress and repetitively playing the game to win will yield those exact results...but you can't win if you don't play

Hey dude. On the voice issue, would you consider speech therapy? I had a condition called puberphonia where my voice broke but the pitch remained high..... Basically I sounded like a girl. I had relationships before I got it fixed so don't let that put you down!!! Two sessions and I'm Barry White hahaha

nah, i dont have a medical condition that caused my voice to sounds funny. But it is more like an accent or something. The things I say is funny, plus my voice, pretty much makes me a funny person in school. But funny don't get you laid.