hi all ive been getting close with this girl over past week, we have had some days we ended up in our underwear in bed, and she stops it and just wants to cuddle up so ive been working on breaking that LMR...we text alot late at night, now last time i invited her over she said no her places was warm by the open fire, so i made a joke bout her being a cave man and moved on....
from the advise i got here i was told next time make a light hearted comment and invite yourself over there kindly of course, so last night we are talking again, she asked me to look at something on her facebook i said im watching a movie, she said u got a phone use it! so i responded like so P.S. second thread is about a tattoo on her leg she wants lol...
Me: lmao yea and u have legs shut up and use them come chat over here x and yea theres a pretty cool twist on the character i like it
her: im all tucked up in bed and aint moving :p im getting it done on my upper left thigh to balance out the ink on my body lol x
me: thats is only fair im not in bed yet so ill pop over in bout half hour want me to bring anything? and good idead from your tree tattoo i assume u mean
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her: i didnt mean that lol and yeah the tree kind looks too much on its own on one side x
(should i have backed off here or what???)
me: yea absolutely, and to late now movies (that i was watching) has been paused and everthing
u dropping the keys down to me or? x
her: Nick i have work tomorrow and everyone is in bed, your not coming in x (this sounded like a pretty blunt put down to me, but within the same minate i kid you not i hadnt finished reading the message she then says )
her: if your free tomorrow im more than happy to see you then but you cant now x
me: im doing a little driving tomorrow see a few friends, the back seat is all yours if you mind your head
, and what colours you getting the tattoo same as pic or different? x
her: ill tage along as long as they dont mind, and yeah but possibly a little more vibrant or brighter so it matches the tree more x
me: u not working tomorrow? x (was trying to change subject and not her off guard it was advised to try every now and then )
her: thats thursday x
me: (now trying to make it sound like its her idea and i dont mind i put ) fair enough, um yea y not im doing nothing after i see them so yea come with
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her: Awesomes
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She then left convo saying "my film has finished now so im off to sleep, ill cya tomorrow, night x"
was this a good development or did she suggest another meeting time just to shut me up :/ cause if thats the case shouldnt i flake on her ????
CHAT
