Got a girl Ive been talking to for a little bit. We've hung out a few times; definately connected, made out and Ive fingered her a couple times. Every time it gets heavy there is LMR and she wants to stop fooling around. The first time we hung out (which was the first time we fooled around) told me she takes things REAL slow. Recently we hung out and I could tell she just wanted to cuddle. Last time we hung out and she told me she wanted to be friends befause she says when she gets involved with someone her priorities get out of whack. She told me she likes me and stuff like that. I suggest she just be grounded and still keep her life together and hang out with me but I guess thats an issue for her apparantly. She tried to think to a time in the furture when it could work, but returned back to her position. I told her I am sexually attracted to her and its not a comfortable position for me to not express how i feel.

Should I hang out with her as friends (Im thinking the sexual tension over time may cause her to cave in) or should I not talk to her anymore? I also would like to see her get situated in her life and dont want to neccesarily interfere by having her get compleatly stuck on me (she seems like the type) but I think she'll probably meet some guy eventually if I loose touch and i dont want to compleatly let her go.without consumating things. I might just not talk to her for a month and then see where its at.

Your goal is sex only then?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Spike the attraction then freeze her out would be an option.

It's your choice. Do you wish to invest yourself more with the chance of maybe getting her (if you do this looks like it could probably be a gf) but also risk losing her (her eventually saying no)? Or do you want to move on with your life?

It is sex, but she's cool I do want her around as a mltr.