My sexual confidence took a huge knock when I prematurely ejaculated on this HB, who's a long term friend
and was a virgin before this night. Looking back at it now, with all the things I've read, I know that she still
had a great time.

It's still an issue though, because I've become convinced that it will happen again next time I fuck a girl.

This is really holding me back, I've got no problem approaching and getting girls. Right now I've got numbers for plenty of girls that I know will fuck.


Also, advice on being a little rougher and more dominant would be appreciated. Because I play myself up
really big in my text game, which adds to the performance anxiety...

I've even been considering going to spend a night with this chick who's been trying to get on my dick for years, I feel that one night of good sex will probably bring my confidence back up.

One more thing, I'm not circumcised and don't masturbate the glans of my dick directly ever. Should I start doing this to reduce sensitivity?

it doesnt matter if u prematurely ejactulate just put on a new comdom and keep fuking

Plenty of posts on this topic. Search a bit.

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For getting rough and being dominant, it helps if you are dominant first of all. If you aren't very comfortable, the first thing to be able to get comfortable with is simply changing the position you are in. Do this by physically moving the girl to a different one. i.e. If you are doing missionary, come out and move her body so you can spoon her. This movement will already shows dominance and a girl will readily comply.

When you get more comfortable with handling a girl, take her against a wall from behind. Pushing a girl flat against the wall gives just a ton of dominance opportunities. You can grab her hair and push face gently against the wall while turning it so you can kiss her mouth. You can pull her arm toward you so you can get at her mid section. You can also use your whole body to flatten her into the wall. This seems to drive girls completely nuts.

Moving from any position to her being on her belly also gives you an opportunity to spank her. Just make sure you give her a real zinger by slapping hard, but as soon as you touch pull your hand back. You should practice on your own leg a few times before trying it though. You know you are doing it write because it makes a high pitch noise. If you just smack a girl and don't get the noise, it's not as nice.

If all of this is too difficult try simply holding firmly on her arm below the bicep, taking her jaw in your hand and drawing it towards you to kiss her, or firmly, but lightly grab her hair in the middle of the back of her head.

My personal favorite is biting, but I've left some pretty bad bruises, so you have to try not to get too carried away.

Biting ive found is a big yes when being dominant, a slight tug on the bottom of the lip whilst kissing seems to make girls go insane. from this position you can move into pretty much anywhere.

Being dominant in the bedroom isnt just about you being the main driving force, and premature ejaculation isnt the worst thing either! after speaking with a girl ive slept with she says its a huge turn on where men cant control themselves because it makes them feel sexy.....doing all the right things aye? of course every man wants to be a stallion, but think of it from her point of view, if its taking you 5 hours to come then clearly she might think your not too much into them.

Main point be comfortable and relax bro.

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You should read The Sex God Method. Also, it may have lowered your confidence, but know the only way to overcome this is to go at it again and this time you know that it might happen so you can now do everything you can that it won't, which is slowing down, going down on her etc.

Thanks for all the advice, in regards to all the biting stuff, I've always been a big fan of biting and all girls seem to love it.

Porn is terrible, like I've been watching a lot of porn for the past few months, and now I just feel like "Shit, What I can do ain't shit if there's guys out there who can just fucking demolish these girls for hours and throw them around like lil ragdolls :/"

Porn is really a poor reference. It's funny that you say that, because I was speaking to a girl who specifically said that she had seen a change in how younger guys have sex (she is VERY experienced) because of porn. She said they try and get rough, but have no idea what they are doing and it isn't nice at all.

Another point is that you should be able to tell that the women in porn are often not turned on. They fake it, but in reality you can see how bored they are. These guys have great control, but it's a movie and there is no real passion.

Having passionate, rough sex for hours = happy girl
Having rough sex for hours = bored, sore girl

Let us know how it goes the next time!Hopefully youll feel more comfortable!

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