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 Post subject: What Can I do now?
PostPosted: Mon Apr 08, 2013 1:10 pm 
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Iv been seeing this girl for 5 months already. We were close from beginning, but i mess up and went to far to fast. For some reason she still wanted to see me few times a week.

Now everything changed. She was at my place saying that she don't know it she feels sth, and after so long she should.. She still stayed at me place for night, we and up in my bed. She was saying things like she don't understand and don't know what to do...
She decided that we cant have sex anymore and its better to be friends.

I told her that i can see us in such situation, and if she want to be friends i cant give her that because i want more. So i told her we cant contact.

She texted me few minutes after she went out that

"I don't delete your number... maybe you will want to contact me..."

I didnt texted her back. After a day she texted again that

"I cant accept i wont be able to talk to you again...it sick!"

And again i didn't texted her back.

What know is there any chance i can do sth?
Any idea will be great i don't know what to do from here.


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 Post subject: Re: What Can I do now?
PostPosted: Mon Apr 08, 2013 1:13 pm 
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You don't give enough here (and this should probably be posted in relationships). It's not a text that will fix it. Why did she want to stop sleeping with you?


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 Post subject: Re: What Can I do now?
PostPosted: Mon Apr 08, 2013 1:27 pm 
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I know its not a text that will fix it. But still the fear of lose might help maybe she will realize that iam important for her. After all we've been seeing each other for 5 months.

The problem was the i always wanted her more. So when we've been together I always hug her kiss...

She said that it was to much for her, and it was even annoying.
I dint give her a chance to chase me almost ever.

Her reason for stop sleeping:
- it cant look like that anymore
- i don't feel what i should feel after so long
- she said that she love spending time with me
- that sex is amazing but its no enough.
- that she should miss me but she don't
- she should want to see me more often


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 Post subject: Re: What Can I do now?
PostPosted: Mon Apr 08, 2013 1:40 pm 
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Well, you have what you need now.

Be around her and stop being needy. Don't touch her, if she tries to hold your hand then find a way to move away from her. For example, she goes to take your hand and as soon as you feel it you point at a shop and say, "what do you think of that outfit?"

The switch will happen very quickly. Within a few days you can change her back, but you have to keep playing distant.


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 Post subject: Re: What Can I do now?
PostPosted: Mon Apr 08, 2013 1:55 pm 
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Thanks good idea.

I didn't texted her for few days know, she thinks that i wont talk to her anymore.
Should i use it somehow ? Leave her thinking for few days more that call her and arrange a meeting?

Maybe she will wont to meet me by herself...

What should i do with her idea of being friends?


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 Post subject: Re: What Can I do now?
PostPosted: Mon Apr 08, 2013 2:03 pm 
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Keep in mind, you are trying to play hard to get. So let her start chasing. Don't ignore her completely, but answer very short texts.

Things like, "I'm not sure" or "maybe" or "let's see"

Keep it short, keep her guessing. Make a chance to meet up and then just put a huge amount of distance. Show you aren't so interested.


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 Post subject: Re: What Can I do now?
PostPosted: Mon Apr 08, 2013 2:12 pm 
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Her last message was
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"I cant accept i wont be able to talk to you again...it sick!"
It was yesterday.

I feel like i should give her few more days to think about it. ( why is he not answering, will he.., maybe i didnt wrong..., Ive been with him for some reason, i miss...)

Maybe i should wait for her next message for two days if she wont write i could write sth. What could it be ?
Dont wont to mess it up, i feel like it is my last chance to show her that she wants me


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 Post subject: Re: What Can I do now?
PostPosted: Mon Apr 08, 2013 2:21 pm 
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Don't worry about it that much. Send it when you feel like it. If you wait too long then she won't see your text as an answer to hers, but just a random short text that shows you've been thinking about it for a while.


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 Post subject: Re: What Can I do now?
PostPosted: Mon Apr 08, 2013 2:42 pm 
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Ok i do that.

What more should i remember when i see her?

Should i convey her that iam not interested in her anymore?
Or just be a little distant.
What if she ask me what i think, how it will look now?
Can we be friends?


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 Post subject: Re: What Can I do now?
PostPosted: Mon Apr 08, 2013 3:27 pm 
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I am not sure about
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Things like, "I'm not sure" or "maybe" or "let's see"
I should convey that i know what i want iam an alpha male :)


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