I am a university student with HV, but low confidence and no experience since I was the fat kid in high school. I m now toned, have an alpha job, good social status, money, etc. At the beginning of the symester, an HB8.5 gave me heavy IOI. Immeditely wanted to partner up and even emailed me her phone number asking me to text her. Of course, I do the AFC stuff and get too excited and blow it. She gave me so many chances, and looking back, I played them all wrong. I literally went 7 weeks without talking to her in class because I had no game and was scared.. But, during that 7 weeks, I have been on this website learning some aspects of the game. This week, I went into class and decided to try my luck and try some of the stuff I learned. For the most part, I nailed it, and it came pretty natural. Over the course of the class, I could tell I was pulling her back in and how she was surpirsed at how different I was acting. W


How do I keep my momentum going?

How do I esclate things from here now that I have her attention again? Is there anything I can say that could expalin why I came off so weak in the beginning?


I have a solid 5 minute walk alone with her in isolation on the way back to the parking lot? What are some sure fire things I can do or say to get the conversation going somewhere? I sick of small talk about school and stuff. Im ready to take chances.

Alright man, good job.

You want to move the conversation away from the every-day school stuff. Good.

Talk about things OUTSIDE of school, then. Traveling is a big one for me. What's the coolest place she's ever been to? What are the three place in the world she has to go to before she dies and why? Is she a traveler at all. If she isn't, tease her a little bit. Movies. Does she watch'em? Music, what does she like? And why? What's her favorite drink? The Question Game, look it up. The Cube, look it up. Play little games. Escalate physically as you're doing all of this. Go question, statement, question statement, etc. Have fun. Be playful. Be forward. Don't apologize for any of this stuff. You know you're interested, nothing wrong with it. Show that in your vibe, and your eyes and your body language.

I'd suggest asking her out, not officially. Say let's go grab a drink this week, or let's cook ourselves some dinner this week. She'll get the drift if there's sexual tension and chemistry between the two of you. If she says something like yeah I'll bring friends along, say no. Only us. Know what you want and go for it and don't steer away from it. Hold your grounding. Keep your frame all the way through. Don't be needy. Be playful, but not needy. You want her, but you don't need her. Girls like to be chased, so chase. You can chase as much as you want as long as you're not needy.

If she ever gets suspicious of your intentions (which she shouldn't because they should be clear either in your body language or your verbal language) just be honest and say "I think you're cute and I want to get to know you more." Bam, done.

Play with her. Have fun. Know what you want and go for it. Don't apologize for any of it. Be unaffected by her shit tests and her weird remarks if she ever makes any. Get close.

Alright man, good job.

You want to move the conversation away from the every-day school stuff. Good.

Talk about things OUTSIDE of school, then. Traveling is a big one for me. What's the coolest place she's ever been to? What are the three place in the world she has to go to before she dies and why? Is she a traveler at all. If she isn't, tease her a little bit. Movies. Does she watch'em? Music, what does she like? And why? What's her favorite drink? The Question Game, look it up. The Cube, look it up. Play little games. Escalate physically as you're doing all of this. Go question, statement, question statement, etc. Have fun. Be playful. Be forward. Don't apologize for any of this stuff. You know you're interested, nothing wrong with it. Show that in your vibe, and your eyes and your body language.

I'd suggest asking her out, not officially. Say let's go grab a drink this week, or let's cook ourselves some dinner this week. She'll get the drift if there's sexual tension and chemistry between the two of you. If she says something like yeah I'll bring friends along, say no. Only us. Know what you want and go for it and don't steer away from it. Hold your grounding. Keep your frame all the way through. Don't be needy. Be playful, but not needy. You want her, but you don't need her. Girls like to be chased, so chase. You can chase as much as you want as long as you're not needy.

If she ever gets suspicious of your intentions (which she shouldn't because they should be clear either in your body language or your verbal language) just be honest and say "I think you're cute and I want to get to know you more." Bam, done.

Play with her. Have fun. Know what you want and go for it. Don't apologize for any of it. Be unaffected by her shit tests and her weird remarks if she ever makes any. Say and do what ever the fuck you want and don't apologize. Get close. Escalate. Vin DiCarlo Escalation Ladder, look it up.

Good luck.