Whoa turbo, I think that you may have a problem with escalation. May I ask what your issue is with it?

I've done what hunter is saying many a times and it worked but never with women as green as being referred to here, normally those girls aren't quite comfortable with their sexuality so I'd also advise against it in this case.

A big key to doing well with women is to react accordingly, to escalate properly.

There is something most guys don't realize all mentally healthy women want sex. ALL OF THEM and a woman isn't a "skank" for loving sex, if she doesn't love sex she is lying or not healthy mentally.

Don't refer to a woman who is comfortable with her sexuality as "skank", that is an unhealthy outlook on women. Plus it is just a horrible ideal to continue to spread around the community, women who love sex are simply humans in touch with their true feminine side, their sexuality.

Note: I will say this much with young girls things are a bit different. Their inexperience makes them go one way or the other.

When it comes to risk creepy it was very very literal, mostly because guys aren't bold enough to escalate and consider things like what he is saying as creepy. It's not creepy to escalate, it isn't creepy to grab her ass, it isn't creepy to want to fuck her, it isn't creepy to grab her chest, yes you do need self control and there is a time for each of those but it is natural to do all of these things.

You think women are this pure innocent creature that don't love sex? You think it makes them feel horrible? You think they don't want sex? You think they just do it for guys just because? Sex is natural, euphoric, fun. You never need to convince women to want sex, they already want it, in fact biologically they need it, but you do need them to want to have sex with you.

As far as getting to sex with her I agree with SexAddict911's post.

The key is to have her want sex with you, build sexual tension.

Remember women love being desired, they love when a guy can't keep his hands off of her. This doesn't mean needy, this means you are congruent with your escalation. This means you truly do want her, you truly are struggling to not capitalize on your sexuality. This is what sexaddict is referring to, it is arousing to her to be desired.

You need to learn to make the sexual tension unbearable, making her truly jones for it as sex addict was saying.

I would also look to capitalize on curiosity which is very powerful.... create curiosity for sex along with being aroused and your there.

Peace and Love,

Vic

You lost me at "turbo"; anyone using whack names they've read in PUA material, particularly to refer to males isn't worth being heard or read for that matter.

LOL - PUA? I had that saying before I ever heard about the pua community n2thevoid, it really just means slow down man(i.e. calm down killer) (whoa like slow down, turbo like you're going a bit quick), you are getting a little crazy fast... Making horrible assumptions, I've read only a few pick up books my reading material is science based. I don't get sayings from books sir.

Keep in mind what you said right there, your experience in the community is very very fresh. You learn by listening not rejecting sir. There are most definitely some negative and poor advice passed around the community but some of us know a thing or two, give it read.

Your assumptions are going to hurt you a lot on this forum, I wrote up a solid bit to help you out and you made an assumption based off of the beginning? Honestly I'd recommend being careful, read the other guys stuff before judging it, it will help you a lot more.

I sense some anger issues some hostility, you may want to learn to remove your emotions from an argument and learn to act in a rational way.

Peace and Love,

Vic

Your ego is spurned and therefore feels the need to lash out with passive aggressive undertones. Go lick your wounds, I'm not interested.