I have gotten into friendzone a lot, maybe because girls think i am only friend material...

I met this girl in class. I find her interesting and could be my gf material. But right off that bat, she says you are my best friend! good friend. shit like that. thru our conversation I learn that she is currently in a relationship. Im not in love with her or anything, I just see her is someone who has potential to be my gf... She did take initiative sometimes, for example she would sit beside me and shit.... etc

How did I get friendzoned this time? I havent done anything, talked to her only a few times. Why is she seeing me as just a friend right off the bat? maybe because she is currently in a relationship and want to make it clear that she has a bf?

Best way to stay out of the friendzone is to avoid it completely by being sexual, flirty, alpha, touching her and making your intentions clear from the start.

Its because you didn't do anything that your friendzoned, if you touch the next girl, look at her, tell her she is sexy, ask her number, ask her out, anything, smack her ass, pull her hair, as a joke ofcourse, you will not be friendzoned easily

What most guys don't realise is girls have 3x categories for guys: Friend material, Boyfriend material and Casual NSA Fuck material

Getting friend zoned is almost always due to one thing: listening with interest.

If a girl is talking and you are being a good listener and being friendly and polite you'll get friend zoned.

Try to avoid that.

So I should not listen when she talks? thats kind of weird...

You can listen but don't put up with her whining about her boyfriend

you mean like, dont agree to everything she say?

her: my bf is a fking asshole.... he did this and that... blah blah blah
me: Yea thats not nice, what an asshole...

Like this? and do this instead?

me: well maybe hes just busy etc....

No. More like "What makes you think I want to talk about your boyfriend?". The girl likes bitching about what an asshole her BF is, so by listening to her problems, you are assuming the role of "shoulder to cry on", i.e. the friend zone.

Do you really think that by listening to her problems and offering her reassurance etc., she will reward you with sex and dump her asshole boyfriend? No! She will simply feel better about getting it all off her chest and go home and fuck him.

Stop being the needy nice guy.