Ok I met this waitress at a strip club while visiting california about a year ago, i was living in Arizona at the time. I moved back to LA in August and i started seeing her, we hooked up the first 2 times we went out. We continued to have a close relationship but we stopped hooking up. She comes over i get to 2nd base but then she stops. We have been on and off for the past three months. I decided i was going to just move on so i stopped talking to her but she started calling my friends and ask for me because i wouldnt answer her calls. She then started making up some crazy things to make me feel sorry for her but i see her game. I just dont know how to either stop the bs or just leave me alone. IE last time i tryed to leave she called saying she might have some sort of cancer. I just want to be the one in control. im a rookie and all this might sound crazy but i could use some advice. Thanks

What is your goal with her? FWB? GF? ONS?

She is showing signs of LMR because she doesn't know where SHE stands.
For you to be in control YOU need to know what YOU want out of it.

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FWB. Your right tho ive never really thought about what I truly want. She aint no gf thing. Too immature for me.When i stop talking to her she finds a way to get me to talk to her and we mess around and all of a sudden it stops on her end. Its just one big cycle. I want to be in control of the situation and Im just not right now.

If you aren't thinking of her in terms of gf material MOVE ON and stop all contact with her. There are plenty of women out there to game and this girl doesn't sound like shes worth all the headaches of laying her.

Yeah this OR Turn her onto your FWB!

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