Ok so I opened a HB9 by poking her first (of course), without adding her as a friend. When she poked back, the conversation went as so:



Me (about an hour ago)
Umm...did you just poke me?

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HB9 (about an hour ago):

Umm...you poked me first.

Me (55 minutes ago):
Aw, come on now with the lies

HB9 (55 minutes ago)
HAH. you know it's true.

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Me (45 minutes ago):

You know you liked it! lol. So if I had just come out of nowhere and slapped you on the ass, you're telling me that you would slap me on the ass back because I did it first? /:)

HB9 (10 minutes ago)

I'm pretty sure I'd slap you in the face.

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Now, to me it appears that this is an impossible situation to recover from, but I would GREATLY APPRECIATE any input. Specifically, I'm hoping someone might be able to provide me with a great recovery response, some thoughts as to whether or not this is a shit test, and how/why/when/where I fucked up on this one for future reference. Thanks!



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Dude whats the point to waste your time poking HBs on facebook,you wasted half day txting but how many actual dates did you get?

you can get a few, it's helpful in fine tuning conversational game

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me:
Hey you know its not safe to poke strangers! I guess your parents never taught you that!

hb:
shut-up!

i was just giving it a try and i got this..hehe

Hi Guys, firstly wanted to say this is awesome! Thank you to Whoopie and everyone else who has added to this thread!
Does anyone know if the main man is still around?

Okay so I used this technique last night to poke my Ex, were not friends on FB, coz i left her a year ago and we havnet spoken called, texted in all that time. Tbh Im not sure if still likes me, because she was pissed when i told her its over.
You guys are probably thinking, Why is he trying to get back with the ex? And NO she hasn't had breast implants!

So anyways I poke her at about 2200 last night, and nod off to bed. She doesn't poke, but messages back instead

HB
' Poked...? '

Ive read this entire thread, and no one else has done anything similar or come up with anything I could use, So need a little help with the response here guys, I need to try and get a reply back within the next few hours.... if poss. I was thinkin of sending a message accusing her of poking me first even though she hasnt! werent really sure how keep this going. The way i see it, she replied so she dont completely hate me, and she mind wanna get back together so I aint got nothing to loose for trying, right?
These are my ideas for response so far.apologise in advance if Ive poached some of youre messages

1/Whoa Whoa Whoa your not that lucky yet. How do I know your not crazy stalking me?

2/Hey you poked me first, I was just defending myself

3/haha, seriously? you poked me first, and i don't lose poke wars, so i didn't have a choice:-)

4/You serious? You poked me first, I just followed up with a counter poke, In all fairness not completely clued up on how to use FB fluently, so wasnt sure of the etiquette on how to deal with people who poke me:-D

Or guys if you have any alternative suggestions that would be most helpful
Cheerios

this is golden, commenting for furthur use =) so i can find it lol

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Guys how do you do to search those HB on facebook I mean with no mutual friends

When I search they always show me the only ones with who i have mutual friends

Am I the ONLY person who realized that girls do NOT poke back on Facebook anymore?

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Myspace? people still use that? lol..

On Facebook, it's best IMO to hit on girls in groups, or who are friends of friends. Blind messaging a stranger can work, but it's not always advisable.

So I tired this out.

ME:
Hey you know its not safe to poke strangers! I guess your parents never taught you that!

HB:
I never poked you

I got nothing

Well you should have waited for her to poke you back.

Holy **** this really does work.

ME
Hey you know its not safe to poke strangers! I guess your parents never taught you that!

HB
Lol who are you? I just tried to find you on my friend list. I was like whaaat.

ME
Lol you looked very pokable! But do you always poke random people back?

HB
Sure yeah. Why not?

ME
lol I can already tell.....YOUR TROUBLE!!!

HB
No I'm not! Lol I'm harmless

ME
Lol I don't know you're going around poking random people. I am good boy and I don't need to be tempted by your devilish ways!

HB
Heyy you poked me first just sayingg

ME
I am the adventurous type what can I say lol, Not adventurous?

HB
I am. Sometimes.

ME
Well I cant chat long, but I want your opinion on something.

My friend just broke up with her boyfriend. Turns out he was cheating on her. She is really hurt currently all she does is work and take care of her kid. I am going to get the kid a gift because he is a cool kid.

My question is, what would you want to cheer you up?

HB
Spending time with people cheers me up. It gets bad things off my mind. Also food.

ME
Lol let me guess, chocolate?

Well I have to go, but I am going to do this. I am going to go ahead and add you to my friends list because you seem like an interesting person so far.

What other steps can we take to talk and get to know one another?

I sent her a friends request and she okayed it.

this really does work. I just number closed with it.

I am giving this a try ... already poked 6 girl... will round in on 10 meaby 20 and see how many will poke back and how will it go. Will post the results.

Cheers

Update on previous post:
Poked: 15-20 girls
Poked back: 3
1st she seemed quiet boring so i stoped texting her
2nd is outgoing and she thought it was funny and number closed her
3rd same thought it was funny had a good flirty conversation