I opened up a 2 set recently and gave a false time-constraint and a good opener...

The target was a HB8 and she was with a friend(HB4)..

Opened with the cashmere' sweater line and whether they want a guy to get them a shirt too small or too large...It got them talking and talked it over for a while..As I was posturing like I could leave at any moment, one girl (HB8) was into me..other girl seemed moderately amused..but she threw in the comment "don't you have to get back to your friends"?

Which was congruent with my false time constraint..

Should I neg her? Hold to my word?

You could say something like "Shit, I don't even know you and you are already trying to tell me what to do? "

Honestly, I've had a few girls say that to me when I first started... After it happened a few times, I realized that they just wanted me to leave lol not every set will accept you. Some people simply won't click with you. It happens.

That story is kind of funny.

Be careful hitting on girls with a big gap in appearance quality with who they run with. Your start up line probably over-did it. Reserve that for an 8 with a 7 or something or two 9s together. If the 4 was fat, and the 8 had a much better body, they probably were having some sort of , "does (x)person think I am fat" or some variation of?

Was the convo something you could hear or were they talking in private? I wish you guys would give more details

See the thing was....


They were quite receptive of me, she didnt say it in a slight/shot against me/fuck off type way. These girls hadn't been talked to all night, you could tell the HB8 really wanted me there and the HB4 was involved in the conversation. It may have honestly been a situation in which they didn't want me to leave, but asked to make sure I wouldve stayed.. I didnt over-do it with the opener, showed little attention to the HB8..more the the HB4..


I guess I just froze alittle bit.

if shes not giving a huge IOD vibe i like to say:

"alright i gotta come clean, i made that up so i could escape just in case you were lame or a weirdo "

pretty boss, shows huge qualification. you can also say you only have an hour on a first date and then use this same line after the hour is up.... or escape :p

NEgs are lame, period.