so this girl used to be in a relationship and has regected me in the past but we kept being friends and now she's single. i have asked her out and she said yes.

i asked her out to this amazing icecream pleace very few people know about, beautiful please.

the thing is, this i can feel is a very fragile situation, as she could fleak very easily.

any good texts to send her?

i was thinking

Heyy, im going to the icecream please i toled you about tomorrow,
wanna come?

but its so afcish that i decided to ask for help lol.

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Yeah, don't ask a girl out via text message.

It seems like you already asked her out, no? If she flakes, just enjoy the ice cream.

Don't be insecure and needy. You are seeking some kind of comfort from her that she'll show up and that she likes you. If you want some comfort, go play with yourself.

The beginning of relationships are scary and exciting. If you are a little bitch and need your mommy to stroke your head and tell you that everything will be alright, how do you expect a girl to treat you like a man.

The best cure is to have lots of dates so that if one flakes you aren't concerned. While you are working on that, just realize that what you feel is fear and it's OKAY and perfectly normal.

Am particularly harsh here to try and make a point.

so how am i supposed to see her if i dont ask her out via text? she's not a classmate or anything.

im not seeking comfort from her i just want a good way of preventing a fleak, since she might have said yes at that moment but later when we talk again she is in a different mood and doesnt feel like it. this has happened to me before with another girl.

i have given it a thought and this is what im going to do:

since she often texts me when we dont talk for a few days, im going to wait for her to text me, have a fun playfun conversation, and then qualify:

PUA: hey, are you a girl of your word?
HER: i am!
PUA: cuz im going this saturday to the icecream please i told you about, you should come.
something like that.

something more sutile will probably have come to my mind by then.

thanks for your answers tho guys

Owen

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Don't do that Owen. You can't coerce a girl to show up. Just be cool and fun, so she'll want to show up and be excited to show up.

Maybe it's just a language thing, but I had the impression that you'd already asked her out. Have you yet, or not?

Ok to clear up a few things "Stop texting!!!" you wanna ask her out u PHONE HER use your voice!! its so rarely done nowadays it actually raises your value instantly to have the balls to do it...

Secondly, when you say ask her out you mean that in suggested you hang out she went "sure some time" this is a bad way to do it mate, u should have just said straight and arrange an actual time and place...

on the other hand you cant keep asking her for the same place and same thing she will begin to think thats all you do with your time...try just talking bout other stuff you do give it a few days then suggest a meet at a different thing and suggest it PROPERLY!!!

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here's the conversation. its not one of my good ones.

(...)
ME: i wanna take you to a please i know
HER: where?
ME: there's a please near the river
HER: the pear
i like the games at the pear
ME: here in Tigre, like in front of the river, an icecream please
IN
CRE
DI
BLE

HER: hahahah better than conti?

ME: by faaaaar
i dont really know witch one is coti

HER: like an addict/fan of icecream, conti is one of my favorites

ME: haha its done,
you gotta try this one

HER: how's it called?

ME: via toscana

HER: oh i dont know it...

ME: great name, its a nice please very few people know about, nice vibe, like all made from stone,
scenic paintings of Tigre made my the owner of the please
really nice

HER: yeah it sounds like a non industrialiced Chungo
hey i gotta leave my mom is gonna turn my cel on fire =)
happy easter mister UCA(my college)

ME:
hold on
i wanna take you there
would you like that?

HER:
well, you cant reject icecream
haha
im leaving, byee

(end)
is it too bad?

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8ORQJtxicrA

CALL her! You sound like a shitty salesman trying to sell something through an email. Picking up the phone and making a phone call will take you out of the category of every other guy that texts her. It will make a difference.

got it. im calling her. thanks.

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