I gamed this girl for about two weeks before we hooked up. Everything went well until people started finding out about us. I guess I was a little insecure when I told her I just wanted to keep things on the down low. We went to different parties 2 days this weekend after we hooked up and now our conversations seem to have gotten dull. We had our first date yesterday and it was just really weird. I usually playfully text her sometimes that she doesn't like me as much. She always respond back trying to get with me but this time she said that it's ok for us not to find each other attractive. It was a serious response.

My initial reaction is to just get over it and start gaming other girls but starting from scratch is always the hardest part. Any way I can get her back or is this all over?

Become interesting and attractive, maybe?

This is a sneaky way of being needy, seeking a womans approval, chasing the woman, and being a beta.

It worked for a while but I won't do it for the next one. I'll see what happens. I still consider myself a noob in this game. Thanks for your input.

I don't see much hope for survival here.
Reads; "I'm politely asking you to drop off the planet"
She reads;"He's embarrassed to be seen with me? what a douche!"
She gave you this chance to make amends, and you did nothing! No building comfort, no escalating, no kino, nothing!

The good news, learn from it and move on with greater confidence, you are one step closer.

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