I did the "You can call it whatever you want, I just see it as hanging out and getting to know you" or something like that.

She didn't seem to take that well. She responded with, "Can I bring [boyfriend's name] or another friend?"

To which I replied, "Sure, why not?"

She is STILL throwing up tests.

I've got other girls that are less hot, but are far less drama. I am going to make her qualify herself and maybe keep chatting with her but I'm considering just dropping her/reducing extent of communication.

so basically you handled it badly by answering logically and now she likely thinks youre a chump.

Yeah, totally right (sarcasm).

No, I answered it with essentially, "I don't give a fuck, why the fuck not?" - it's a, "sure, I'll play your little respect game of not screwing with you while you're actually with somebody"

She was never going to invite her boyfriend out, and that was understood. The chump way of playing it would be saying, "No!!!!! Don't bring them out!!!!!!!" - it would show incongruence. I was completely congruent with my frame - friend, wingman, girl I fuck, girl I date, don't care, doesn't matter, whatever happens.

Considering she's going even HARDER now with the texting (it's almost getting annoying), I think she's a combo of both crazy and wanting me. She keeps asking questions about me. So. Many. Questions.

It's to the point where if I was a boyfriend of a girl, and she was doing this, I would not be very happy. A girl should not be texting 8 paragraphs to another guy, daily.

Update: Fucked her.

BOOM! lmao!

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Before First Date

Ok, so after the shit test she threw at me with the whole "Can I invite my boyfriend or a friend?" to keep me in line, I just kept making funny comments for a few days, and brought up hanging out again.

She said yes. It was on a day I had off of work, and I was already planning on staying at another girl's house that night (So yes, I got a blow job from one girl right before I went on a date with this girl) and they lived near each other (about 20-40 minutes from me, depending on traffic).

First Date and aftermath

I went on this first "not date" with this girl. It was fun, made a lot of jokes, we drank, but I didn't really do much escalation. We sat across from each other, and then we went to the mall at the very end. Still, we got along, and it was fun. No kissing, not a lot of touching.

So I was randomly in the same town for Easter two days later, as my aunt lives there. I invite this girl out for drinks. She says yes.

Second date

We get to the drink place by about 8. We get some drinks, go to another bar, sit at a booth that is a little secluded. We joke and gradually get closer and closer in the booth over a couple hours.

Finally we're having a contest to see whose beer is more full. When we do this, we rest our heads on one another, and I know that it's time to make a move.

I immediately put my arms around her.

She goes with it. I wait about 1 to 2 minutes, looking at her, before I go for the make out.

INTENSE make out session, so much so we felt a little embarrassed afterwards.

We decide we need to finish our drinks.

We do, and then we leave.

I basically drive to the first dark alley I see.

I stop my car. We kiss a bit. I tell her to get in the back seat.

We do. Within a minute or two, I'm taking off her shirt, her pants, etc.

Go down on her for a bit, and then we fuck.

Lol, she seemed happy.

She tells me after that she and the dude weren't technically exclusive, and never had that talk. She also told me that she had wanted to just make a move all evening, and it sounds like she likes me better than the other guy.

She wants to meet again.

So, I have to say, all in all, success on this situation.

hey it worked out for you so i guess thats all that matters. congrats.