I've been approaching and bagging at least one girl a week. Last night, heavy flirting, kino, girl left venue with me to another bar, but..I'm not much into black girls. Met up with these asian girls for coffee. She fork fed me a piece of cake and other IOI. BUT...last week I met up with a beautiful spanish girl. Things went kind of off note....

I usually don't do weekends with a girl I just met. But I proposed Mon, she complained about being a fall back and kept on texting me, so I said FK it. We met up, grabbed some coffee, changed venu to a bar. Walking around ALOT because every place was jam packed with no place to sit (March Madness). Conversation went well, I proposed we see a movie. 5 minutes into it I put my hand on her face and went to kiss her...she turns away. Say's she doesn't want to, we just met. I'm completely relaxed...whatever.

Afterwards I invite her to a bar for a couple of drinks. Few drinks in she indirectly drops a hint she's open to FWB relationships (her and dude were basically FWB). Second we step outside, I go for it again. I got very little response, she says I'm not making out with you". hmmm. She get's home 12:30AM and texts me saying I'm very aggressive. Since then...not liking the vibes through text. I was like..maybe we just don't have chemistry like that. Then...She shoots me some loooong text. How it's not that, it made her uncomfortable. I should have understood the first time she didn't want to make out At The Moment. I said I'm sorry you felt that way...did not and will not apologize. Told her I'll call her later...have to reset the frame.

I've Never had this happen before. I've even made a move after talking to a female janitor @ university and her showing me the pictures in the closet.....making out with her passionately, feeling her a**. until she said not here.

For future reference: Keeping the first meeting short and sweet. Always. Escalate slower but faster and use compliance tests (like holding hands). Evaluate for DTF. And taking advantage of a walk in the park vs a movie. Live and learn.

Any feedback or advice???

Some girls are down immediately... some girls take time to build things up a bit. I've been called "Aggressive" a lot my chicks, and I always say something along the lines of "That's just who I am, and you'll just have to accept that or move on. If I see someone I'm attracted to, I'm going to take action."

This chick is still into you... there's no problem here, just keep doing what you're doing. Your game seems pretty solid.

Way better to lose a girl for being too aggressive vs too shy,passive.

In most cases once you have some physical contact going, try for the make out twice. But use calibration, this chick clearly seemed very uncomfortable.
But you have the right idea, having the balls to actually go for sexual/physical moves consistently is literally what separates a guy who rarely gets girls vs a slayer.

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