| Hi guys! I have a theory I would love to discuss, and so far, it has proven to be very true in my own adventures. Firstly I would like to define that a 'crazy' is a super settler; somebody who, for one reason or another, encounters you and wants to wrangle you - a nice gentleman who just happened to randomly appear in her life - into a deep connected relationship...FAST. This could be due to some deep seated pain they are running away from, or simply trouble with other guys. A PU involving a crazy results in somebody who texts/calls constantly and who demands way too much of your time. This also comes in conjunction with a fools mate.
My theory presents there are 3 main IOCs or Indicators of Crazy, that have been present through all women I have encountered with these same characteristics. Each characteristic on its own presents no threat, but I personally avoid people with all three characteristics.
1. They pick themselves up
Originally the rule was 'they ask me out first' but it's more general than this. This includes giving you their number with little to no effort on your own behalf, asking you out through mediums previously presented.
Once a girl who found me on fb(we were not friends on fb yet) and asked me out before we bumped into another again. When I got her number she wouldn't stop texting and demanding I call her. She treated me like a long term boyfriend in a matter of days.
2. Over sharing
This relates to what I previously mentioned, and this is that a person presenting this characteristic is hiding from something and wants to connect with somebody to discuss their issues.
Most commonly I have found is that they have moved cities to avoid family issues, they do not have a lot of friends or they are just generally avoiding something they are willing to admit.
3. Exaggerated encounters
This related to actual dates or individual encounters with a crazy being over exaggerated in their eyes. Normally this could be seen as an IOI meaning that they enjoyed your encounter, but when tagged with the other to IOCs I have discovered it seems to be a common factor. This includes a catch up over coffee being seen as a date when it wasn't, mediocre encounters being seen as amazing in their eyes or simply unwarranted gifts.
A HB 8 once drew me a picture (I KNOW RIGHT?!) of a pair of socks, saying that is what we were after a day 2. She also told me all her friends were asking how our 'date' was when we had a quick work lunch together. I had been presented with the other two IOCs before I encountered this and cut the relationship short.
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Now, this is just a new theory and I would love some thoughts. Normal a crazy is somebody worth avoiding because in the end there is more trouble caused due to Game. If your frame is strong and she can't make you give in to her demands, eventually it is exactly like a long term relationship gone sour.
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