I went on a great first date we both got on really well and she ended up coming over to my place for a bit. She then said I know where it goes from here and im not ready yet (maybe that was a sign I should have picked up on) but she said we can go for dinner on either Friday or Sunday an we still kissed a couple of times when I walked her to her car so I felt it was all good.
I texted her Wednesday asking if we are still on for Friday and she reply a while latter with "im sorry I have been thinking about it a lot and right now is not a good time for meeting someone knew" so I asked what up and she sent me this long text about having personal problems and getting over a bad break up and she feels bad because we had such a great time but she is not in a place to let anyone new in her life right now.
I responded back saying how its a shame because we had such a great time and was really looking forward to Friday but if she changes her mind and wants to meet up dont hesitate to contact me.
Then the following day (I think I screwed up) I decided to call her just to be the friend and ask how shes doing as it sounded like she was stressed out going by her texts the previous day and she didnt answer so left her a message to ask how she has been and said feel free to call me back if she wants to chat.

So thats whats happened so where do I go from here I feel like I shouldn't talk to her for a bit, shes still on my facebook but never see her on there. It just sucks as its not often I feel a real connection like I had with her so how can I work this without coming on to strong.Im not into games or anything but dont know my next move I should make.
Any advice is appreciated
Thanks in advance

Nothing you can do other than sit back and wait for her... Although that probably won't happen. Next.

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buyers remorse, in this case almost buyers remorse. Likely a lost cause

Thanks for the replys guys but is there anything I can do. I dont mean to speed up the process of her being ready for someone else in her life but more just being her mate till she feels she is ready without being put in the friend zone or creeping her out with endless texts as there was something different about this girl that I never see in others
thanks

As we said, there is nothing you can do. Just wait it out. Being friendly and offering sympathy will put you in the friend zone. Avoid and stay clear.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.