So I've posted about this girl a few times on here and I just want to make things clear that I am not an AFC chasing one single girl. I hooked up with 4 women the other night when I was in the zone which seemed to spark more interest in our relationship.

I've known her for a month now and long story short she was into my mate who didn't share the same feelings. Next thing I know because she came to me asking why he doesn't like her and being a friend I told her she deserves better. She has completely ignored my friend since then and even when her friend does mention him in front of her I am quick to change the subject.

Well she has been hanging around me a lot lately and tonight made it known to everyone (on bloody facebook) that we were cuddling up watching scary movies. Now we mostly do friend stuff like funny movies but now I'm starting to notice sexual interest in the way she keeps touching me. Thing is that what I have done except hooking up has gone against everything that I have learnt on this site not to do.

I guess putting her as a friend first and then how things have escalated I'm a bit nervous to lose her if things go sour. Tonight she showed me a funny video of a guy teaching how to kiss using a plum which was very random considering what we had been up too. I new in my head that it was the perfect opportunity to ask her how she rates herself and kiss escalate but I just couldn't master up the courage and also I just don't feel the I've expressed enough interest so it could kind of shock her. Now I know my window is very small before her interest will die and I can see by the way she is flirting that she is just as nervous as I am to not rush into anything.

What is the best way to escalate besides getting us both drunk which she seems to try and get me to do every night we go out haha. At this point I don't know if I need to do more kino and drive her crazy or if I've sexually frustrated her enough and need to kiss.

I am no expert but having had my fair share of failures to kiss close the longer u take and lose such opportunities the harder its gonna be to kiss the girl. Get her drunk and go for the kill wud be my 2 cents