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Cheers dude
So I shouldn't ask her out on a date just yet?
At this point I think she would likely flake on you if you did.
You need to build more comfort, and a connection 1st.
I personally do this through picking up the phone and calling her. 90% of guys strictly text. Be the one that stands out in a great way.
Pick up the phone and call her". "Why?". "You and a billion guys are text-ing her. Be different. Pick up the phone, shoot the shit with her. Be funny, and short. Don't ask to hang out the first time either. Just call, talk, laugh together, ask how the day was. Then end it".
The level of Comfort varies depending on the chick. You'll be able to pick up on this.
Then just say after a connection or two, "hey, you do seem cool, lets grab beer on Thursday at 8. I'll pick you up".
NOT let's go on a "Date"