like say you have a guy who is Asian (or Indian) but sounds extremely American, dresses American, and follows the typical American way of life

does it have its perks in some areas?

I was recently talking to a guy on Bodybuilding.com who is Vietnamese but White washed. Told me he went to Minnesota and showed me pics of some of the girls he managed to get with, one of them was a Heather Graham lookalike.

Any experiences?

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Why do you keep asking these type of questions? I'm just curious.

I suffer from self-esteem issues caused by ethnic appearances. Hurts me to hear that women are crazy for British accents, love the Italian looks, have Black man fetishes, and makes me wonder "huh, what about men of my color?".

Would be nice to know if we have found ourselves a niche.

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You can work hard, get a lot of money, move to Cali, but a sports car, and get a hot wife.



Stop putting so much emphasis on your race and just improve yourself.
Most dichotomies exist because they are created by outgroups.

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what if instead of a hot wife you just wanna bang a lot of hot women

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Paramount, I thought you said you were leaving the forum?

But here you are, starting new threads, posting the same shit, wasting everybody's time.

You should be banned for being a stuck record. Nobody can help you with your severe self-esteem problem but you.

Oh look and look at this website while you're at it: http://www.asianswithwhitechicks.com

you know

I would not be surprised if I was banned

my pursuit of finding the benefits of being an Americanized Asian or Indian man have alienated just about everyone on the board

believe me, I have wished at times that I could stop it and just move on with my life

this is my final tick that I have truly felt PUA could help me with

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Getting laid will not make you happy. You could get laid with hundred HB10 white women, but you would still say they were all flukes.

Did you even look at the website? It answers all your questions.

If you define yourself by your race then other people will. Stop fucking worrying about it. It's arbitrary to pick up in general. Sure, a small percentage of girls out there won't fuck you because you are Asian. Get over it, it is a tiny % and also that's just life. Life isn't easy, it's a challenge and you've got to learn to love that challenge. A small percentage of girls wont fuck you if you if you aren't a billionaire. A small percentage won't fuck you if you don't have huge muscles. A small percentage wont fuck you unless you look a spitting image of their ex they're still hung up over. Does that mean you shouldn't ever hit on girls then? How do you know 100% without approaching what those girls think? You can't possibly. Get over it and stop being a whiny prick, you're insulting your own race and everyone else's in the process. Change you belief structure and chuck reference experience at it until your brain can no longer hold on to that old belief. There's plenty of asian PUA's out there. Just watch video after video after video of them picking up on Youtube and you'll see your belief is stupid. And also next time you get blown out of a set, don't blame it on being Asian. That's just your ego protecting itself. By blaming it on a factor that you have no control over it alleviates the ego of having to challenge it's self perception on how good you are with women. Improve your game, get rid of that toxic belief and you'll be fine. If any girls then do actually blow you out because you are Asian then they will be doing you a massive favour by not wasting your time when they are someone you obviously wouldn't want to and shouldn't be with.

^^^This is 100% correct. Why are worrying about the opinions of people who are essentally just racists? Racists are fucking scumbags man, if someone has a problem with you because of the colour of your skin then I personally wouldn't even want to be in the same room as them, let alone invest any of my precious time conversing with them.

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+1

This is exactly Paramount's problem. He would rather blame his lack of success on being Indian, because it means he doesn't have to admit that he is the problem, not his race. It's hard to admit you are bad with women, but you can only improve if you admit your weakness. Paramount refuses to accept it is his weakness and poor game which is the reason he fails (not racist girls).

no

I just want to know how an Indian guy can mold himself into being just as competitive as an Italian or British guy in the US.

The British have their accents, Italians their stereotypes of being lovers and all that.

How can an Indian guy turn his Indianess into a great asset.

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Dude...
I've never been to the US, but I got with an American girl when I was in Spain. I'm Swiss. What are Swiss people known for? Money. Which is something I don't have. I'm a student. So there was no predisposition that could have made me desirable, but I still got the lay.
What does that tell you? Start trying! Even if there were something like advantages for some (UK accents and such), just step up your game and your problem will be solved.

Why don't you try moving somewhere where's there's no big Indian community. That would make you more unique and the girls may like it!

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well what good things are Indian men known for when it comes to women?

come on

throw ideas at me

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