I did not read what other guys were saying so I can repeat myself.

I had this problem as well. Silent moments were awkward for me and I thought I needed to say something to get out of them. But thats just AFC. You don't have to be talking all the time. You can k-close the girl without a word and both of you will be comfortable with that. As long as you are projecting the frame that everything is cool everything will be cool.

Now I often create them myself. Why? Because you can transform it to sexual tension.

Whenever I get bored of chatting I stare at girls face seductively and say nothing. Usually girls stop talking and this moment creates a lot of sexual tension. Here you can do some kino or break the tension by continuing your convo.

Such silences are very pleasant as it creates good emotions in you and the girl.

Its all about how you perceive the situation.

It seems like everyone is saying that I should work on transforming it into sexual tension instead of awkward silence. I guess I'm just afraid that she will get weirded out lol. Again I guess I'm just gonna have to man up and put myself in the situation to get experience. If I fail then I learn.

Thanks bud.

think about the goal of your interaction

if you just want to just to chat then do it

if you want to sex up a girl you also do it. if she doesn't respond she probably does not like you and you should move on

maintain eye contact and smile widely and you can endure any insult, rejection, awkward silence