I'm a senior in high school and I'm new to the PUA game. I got a few questions on approaching girls.
QUESTION 1:
In my psychology class theres this girl that sits 2 rows away from me and I want to approach her. Not allowed to talk most of the time in class and thats the only time I see her all day. How do I go about approaching her? Shes li ke a 8.5 and isn't really the bitch type.
QUESTION 2:
How do you approach a girl thats walking by herself in school? As well as how do you approach a girl thats walking with a friend of hers at school? Both of thes taking place in the hallways.
QUESTION 3:
The SPAM in a place like the mall is much easier then at school. Can you rate my approach 1-10 and give any tips for when at the mall, movies etc?
Me: Excuse me, whats your name?
Her: Brittany
Me: Oh okay my names isaiah. I just wanted to come talk to you cause I thought you had really nice eyes.
Her: *Blushing* Thank you!
Me: Lets hang out sometime. Whats your number?
Her: ***-***-****
How did I do?

Thanks! (:

I'll be honest... Terrible lol

1. Don't EVER. EVER EVER EVER Say "Excuse me." You are the fucking man. You need to make 0 excuses to initiate a conversation.

2 Don't ask her for her name until you start getting IOIs from her. Asking her name is showing interest and that's something you want to do. We want HER chasing YOU. Not vice versa.

3. Don't compliment a girl on her looks. Ever. EVER EVER EVER EVER. Because if she truly does have nice eyes, its something she is going to hear all the time. She won't be able to take it as a genuine compliment because its generic. Compliment her on her personality but wait until mutual attraction is established BEFORE you start giving compliments. AND MAKE HER WORK FOR THEM TOO!!


Your approach was what every guy does. If you want girls chasing you... You have to be DIFFERENT than the rest. Yes you got her phone number. But girls will give out their phone number to pretty much anyone. Especially if you ASK for it. Spend some time building some rapport with her before you go for her number and it will make the number more valuable. Don't treat it like its some type of fuckin prize....

Keep workin at it bro! You're approaching and that's better than alot of guys are able to do!

Okay thanks lol. If it was you Then how would you have approached her? She was sitting down alone at a table. Any answers for the other questions?

Well... for your first question regarding the girl in your class... Logistics really aren't in your favor if she is 2 rows away from you. I've never been in school when I was practicing but I would try something like this.... throw a piece of paper at her or something that really isn't going to hurt her but will get her attention (don't be a dick) then as you throw it, make it blatantly obvious that it was you and turn your head towards the front of the class and smile with a stupid grin on your face and kinda glance back at her out of the corner of your eye and smile at her. BE FUNNY about it. One thing I learned from pick-up is that girls when I was younger ALWAYS LIKED THE CLASS CLOWN...(hopefully you can visualize what I'm talking about because its kind of difficult to explain on a forum.) The thing is, if you open in that way... That better be your personality type. Someone who is naturally a FUN guy. Then after you get out of class you could say something like "You never responded to my love note! We're through! "

Or, as you are walking out the classroom at the end, snag a piece of chalk from the room (do they still use chalk in schools? lol Its been a while) and put a little line of it on her back or on her shoulder and say something like "OMG You slob! You have chalk all over your back!! " and again BE FUNNY about it. There's your opener and then you work her from there...

What you say during your opener means very little. You see this girl every day, so a situational opener like such is probably going to work the best. The key to it is really the manner its done in (your tonality, your body language being able to transition into a normal conversation.) You want her to FEEL like she has known you forever within minutes of talking to you. That will allow you to build rapport with her and actually get her phone number with her WANTING you to call or text her.

Moving targets (walking at the mall etc.) are a whole different battle my friend. Get used to opening and being interesting at first and THEN worry about how to open up moving sets. In order for them to stop, you better be DAMN interesting and know exactly what the fuck to say next to keep their attention.

Focus on solid game... not just getting a bunch of phone numbers in your phone.