Thanks to the support from bro's everywhere, I've become a metric shit-ton more confident dealing with women, but I'm always down for new advice.

Went out for my birthday party last Saturday, and ended up accidentally crashing a bachelorette party of 7 women. The girl I was originally talking too was just my inlet. About 20 minutes into my crashing their group, one of the girls was obviously trying to get me the fuck away from them. From there, I decided to focus myself on her, trying to win her over, going for the more challenging one. She's a 9. I ended up telling her I was a mellow dude there to have fun, as were they, and that she should get the stick out of her ass, and be cool.

Long story short, she smiled, I pushed kino quickly, had her all over me, made-out, and she voluntarily gave me her number without me asking.

I've been texting since Sunday, and talked to her on the phone last night. She's been quick to respond, and isn't making me work as hard as I'm used to. I would say high interest. There's a lot of common ground between the two of us. Pushed for a meet-up this weekend, but she has a lot going on and wasn't able to commit. She counter offered for next Thurs/Friday. I told her that I don't even really know my plans for a regular weekend, let alone being able to setup plans that far in advance, so I would have to get back to her. I am (though she doesn't know it) down to meet up on one of those days.

During our text conversations (in the beginning) I let her know I had some confessions to make: one being, I'm a sucker for stellar kissers so if she abuses that fact, she's out. The second being I stole the bride-to-be's bachelorette tiara as a war trophy. She played into it and said my secrets are safe with her. She ate it up like pie.

What I'm thinking is that Sunday/Monday I cold-text her and say that I just realized something...I told her two confessions, and that she's told me none. That being said, I'm giving her 24 hours to come up with something that can out-do me. From that point, see where shit goes, and go ahead and secure the meet-up.

What do you all think? Any alternatives?

Unless you are going to use her as a pawn to game some other girls... Don't bring her to a bar. Find some stuff to do around your house and have her tag along with. My favorite thing to do is car shopping. I bring her to a dealership and say "alright here's what were gonna do. We're gonna pretend were getting married in 6 months and looking for a sports car for you for the summer. Lets see how long we can go arguing and fighting infront of the salesman before one of us cracks. Loser buys the winner dinner." I've done this with a few girls (going to different dealerships every time. it doesn't take very long for a salesman to realize you are wasting his time but they will still try and sell you a car and keep you there as long as they can.) and we have literally pushed it to the point where we "call off the entire wedding" right infront of the guy. It's a very unique form of people watching that both of you can have fun with. Try something like that instead of your traditional "date."