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PostPosted: Thu Mar 21, 2013 1:03 am 
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I am in need of some of your guys easiest openers..Are they opinion openers? question? or just a normal hello. I am having some trouble getting past my approach anxiety and need some real easy openers to help become more comfortable. Thanks!

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 Post subject: Re: Easiest opener
PostPosted: Thu Mar 21, 2013 1:35 am 
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The only thing an opener does is set the tone of the conversation.

The easiest is "Hi", because then, you can talk about anything.

This is opposed to the hardest: "I want you, take off your clothes. NOW. SEX."

Moral of the story, do what works for you.

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 Post subject: Re: Easiest opener
PostPosted: Thu Mar 21, 2013 4:04 am 
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not really what im looking for

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 Post subject: Re: Easiest opener
PostPosted: Thu Mar 21, 2013 9:49 am 
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...some trouble...
What trouble exactly! Be specific. How you feel, what you're doing, what you feel you should do at that moment, etc...Ask questions from yourself.
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...need some real easy openers to help become more comfortable...
The more you think about comfort, the more you'll struggle with Approach. First, break AA in all. Do not overthink about approach, follow Mystery's 3 second rule. Concentrate on Approach, not the outcome. Self-correct yourself in-field. Let the initial conversation be slow, implying, you're thinking before you say/act something, later on things will speed up with experience.
Get your mood proper, have some fun prior with friends. Comfort is part of mid-game, actually.


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 Post subject: Re: Easiest opener
PostPosted: Thu Mar 21, 2013 10:09 am 
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here is one i use all the time

step 1

Sara?! Is that you? (huge smile) oh, i thought you are a friend of mine , while your here you mind if i get a personal opinion on something?

imbedded command to create comfort

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 Post subject: Re: Easiest opener
PostPosted: Thu Mar 21, 2013 10:10 am 
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To Syx:
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The easiest is "Hi", because then, you can talk about anything.
Agree, and the one that I've used more.
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This is opposed to the hardest: "I want you, take off your clothes. NOW. SEX."
Disagree, the hardest ever for me is: "Hey Guys, I can't stay long because my friends are waiting but I just need a quick female opinion... Do you guys believe in magic and spells?"

to Larry david:

Level 1, easy ones:
Hi, do you know what is the name of this song?
Hi, do you know what time is it?
Hi, do you know where is the post office?
etc.

Level 2 is to add some type of compliment to the person:

Hi, I just have to tell you that you look cute
Hi, you look so attractive that I've to come and talk to you
Hi, that smile of you just made me come over and start talking to you

If you want to make things comfortable you can start with the level 1 type of opener many times and once they are very easy for you you can try the level 2 ones.


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