About two months ago I met this girl, and things were going pretty well. We were having sex regularly, and it seemed like she was pretty interested in me.

More recently, though, guys, I feel like she's got me by the balls and I'm sick of it. I usually text her to see what's up, and almost always I end up going to her place. In other words, I feel like she knows I'll text her if she doesn't text me, and she knows she can get me to come to her place. As a result, I'm pretty sure she's losing interest in me. We're not in any kind of exclusive relationship, and I wouldn't be surprised if she's seeing other guys.

Let me be frank. If you guys are going to say, "just game other girls," you can hold your breath -- I'm already doing that. If I never see this girl again, it wouldn't be the end of the world; to tell the truth I've gotten really tired of her thinking she can just take advantage of me like that.

So, I'm currently freezing her out. Is this the right thing to do? For about three or four days now, I haven't sent her anything, and haven't heard from her.

Or do you think since I was such a pussy recently that she'll just move on? I think this girl has pretty low self-esteem, so I wouldn't be surprised if she's seeing some asshole and just taking advantage of me.

I'm really just trying to understand the situation here; even if things don't work out, I'd like to be able to understand what I did wrong so it doesn't happen again.

I don't get it, either, how there can be really great girls out there who are interested in me (there's one right now in my life) and yet I keep coming back to this girl who's got me by the balls. It's like, why do I ignore someone great only to go back to someone who treats me like shit? Advice, criticism, etc. appreciated.

When girls act stupid it is usually a good idea to ignore them and let them make up for their stupidity. Don't try to contact her unless she shows maturity and decides to initiate the contact herself. Never stress it.

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Am I correct in thinking that, if she never contacts me again, she's not worth my time?

That's not really a good attitude to have, just don't put energy in it. Your showing too much emotional investment towards the situation, your probably DYING for her to contact you. If it really bothers you that much just try to keep yourself occupied and FORCE yourself to not contact her unless she contacts you. If she never contacts you then move on, simple.

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EXACTLY

Thanks.