| Hello guys, I am 17 year old Korean dude and study in London, but in a suburb area.
Ok so..I got to know this girl last week. We texted and met in the houseparty that
seniors threw. We had a great time, but nothing like sexual tension or kino (except huggings) happened.
After that, we are quite close, but there is a definite awkward wall between us. Before getting into detail, please have a look:
My pros
- Most people in my school agrees that I am athletically excellent.
- I can say confidently that I am good at coaching people for athletic performance.
(people sorta agree that I am an Alpha in this matter, since I am now coaching
an Italian dude who girls fing love)
- Put a lot of effort styling my hair and outfits.
- Very good at cooking and magic.
- Good at texting and convo through fb
- I don't feel depleted or inferior at all when I stay with cool kids, I do sometimes socialize well with'em.
My CONS
- Language barrier; although I am decent in WRITING English, It is hard for me to keep up a good conversation nicely with girls; on the other hand, I am very very sociable with Korean girls.
- Being a bit afraid to talk to girls due to the reason above.
- Our school is very small, each grade has only about 30 people. About 8 guys are cool guys and I
can be quite sociable with them, but normally I stay in distance.
- I am way too nice; I got with most Korean girls I hit on, but I ended up being friend-zoned with Western girls I hit on.
- I am afraid to initiate Kino.
- I am very quite in school.
As you can see, I have tons of barriers to go through:/
Luckily this Saturday, I have a private party with *cool* dudes, and after that
I am planning to meet this girl I like. I watched tons of videos about sexual tension, kino escalation, negging a girl and stuff...since I am so used to be a nice and kind guy, those seems hard, but what can I do? I now desperately want to go kiss her.
I am planning to do some cigarette levitation and vanish,and card trick if I get a chance.
She has freckles on her face, how can I neg with her?
How can I become more comfortable with her at the club, and move onto kiss?
How do girls feel if a guy stops using smileys and "haha" thingy, or can I add them occasionally?
Guys, please, I beg you, help me with this; by this Saturday it might be my life changing experience..
Cheers..
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