Hey guys, im a 24 yr old white guy currently living in Philly but just came from the boondocks in NC. I've been studying pua for almost a year now with success. I've read The Game, Awakening the Giant Within , and The Way of the Superior Man. As well as some others. I look at this as a means to an end though. I'd like to find someone i could stay with. But I'm constantly running into the whole paradox thing. I'll see a girl for a while and i end up losing respect because of the way they need to be treated in order for me to get their attention. Any direction would be appreciated. Thanks and hopefully i learn a lot from y'all.