Could you guys give me some things to say, if you recommend it. A part of me just wants to block and delete her on SPAM, and all that, erase her number, but i worry i wont have closure and maybe ill always be wondering. The thing is, I want her to wonder where the fuck I went.

Whats the best way for me to do this, so she knows what she lost.

Just block her number, erase all contact with her, vanish from her life. Then there is a tiny chance she will miss you and come running if things screw up with this new guy. Besides, you shouldn't want her back since she has effectively cheated on you.

MOVE ON. IT IS FINISHED. YOU ARE NOT GETTING HER BACK. NOT NOW, PROBABLY NOT EVER.

This.

There's nothing else you can say, it's done.

Gents, I think you ca stop responding to this guy, because he is a troll. Although not a bad one so props for that.

Look I get it, Im hitting myself so much for this. Its absoluletely killing me, it was long distance and I was never there to see her I fucking lost my shit. I fucked up, i m hating every minute of it and living with the consequences.

I know she is going to talk to me this week, I wont answer.

This summer I go back to Europe, our houses are 5 minutes away from each other . . .

Still no chance?

She messaged me today:

hey, how are you, its been exactly a week that we havent spoke and i realize a lot of things and ive done a lot of thinking. How has it been for you? Lets talk tonight or tomororw? Let me know?

No reply.



No reply.

Ill talk to you tomorrow then.

No reply.


(she told her friends on her facebook that she is going to break up with me. Worst of all, she told the new dude that she is now hooking up with that "this is for the best, im going to break up with him and its going to break his heart, but i m over him"


Every part of me wants to tell her i know what she has done and what a bitch she is, but im going to ignore. even when she messages me tomorrow to "finish it"

Good strategy. It'll confuse the fuck out of her. Stick to your guns this time bro.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

I havent said this but, she logged into my computer on her facebook and I can see everything she is saying. Like what a bitch, the things she says about me:

"I will break his heart, not being cocky but im overrrrr himm"
"It will be so easy"
Both to the guys she wants now

to the girls:

"i don t know, ill just finish it, i dont think i love him anymore"
"my feelings have changed"

I also see a few of my friends fucked me over who said they would help.

Man i cant believe all this shit is happening to me.

There is no hope? My friend who is in the game says - Ignoring her is the only way.

But if i ignore her I look like a lil bitch I think, that I am running away from the break up?

All my other friends say message her what a bitch she is. I dont want that.
Surely with all this, there is something I can do?

i know that this topic could be seen dead, but i would love your guys opinions on what you think will happen on the next few days, and if she is being serious about loosing total feelings for me.

If she messages me tomorrow saying, okay i just wanted to say we are done.

Would you reply saying you know everything or just leave it

If she tells you that she wants to break up with you then say this: "Ok". That's it.

However I really hope that you won't say this and rater say something like "Oh but..." "Can we not make this work ?". Cos that would be quite entertaining to read here

Usually no contact takes a week to 3 weeks with my ex, the way you have acted, you have to give her space for months...

Shouldnt I be pissed, shouldnt i be fucking furious. Shouldnt i reply to her text

(she texted me again saying okkayy let me know when you want to talk),

and just tell her, i know everything, and tell her she is a bitch and she doesnt deserve me

I messaged her, saying we can talk tomorrow. I am going to basically tell her i know everything and she is the biggest bitch i know, she doenst deserve me, and that i dont care. I actually dont right now. Just hurt. Even though i love her, miss her, i dont think i could ever be with a girl liek that

And don't be suprised when she starts to cry and say how bad is she feeling about this.

She will try to put into this perspective: it is not my fault, it just happened, or she would even try to blame you.

But again I would not talk to her at all, do not give her a chance to do so.

This is what I will say:



I don’t even know where to begin.

First of all, I don’t know why youre telling people youre going to break my heart and im going to be so upset. Maybe you forgot who you were dating, but to be honest, im trying to remember the girl who I was dating. Because I never though the girl I loved, would message a guy the day after we broke up about hooking up. Also, you hooked up with another guy and im pretty sure youre even talking to him right now which just goes to show what type of girl you are.

The thing is, I thought I knew you, I’m just disappointed. Maybe I brought out the best in you.

So you know... Im all good, you made it a lot easier than I thought it was going to be, you made me not care, which is funny cuz this past week all I heard was how cocky you were being and you saying ohhh its going to destroy him he will be heart broken. Don’t you have respect?

We were done the day of the break. In my mind, we were done, I didn’t need to say we are over because when I said actions speak louder than words, you laughed, but boy did your actions speak loud to what girl you are.


You know what, I can walk away from this, your first relationship, first everything, and I can say I gave everything I could, and that you could trust me 100%... truth is, I can not say the same for you, I wish I could.

One day you will realize what you did, and what you lost.