Hey Puas and thank you for reading.....





Last night when i was heading out, found some colleagues from work and had a bit of fun dancing...... changed eyelooks with this girl i was dancing.... starting kino her, touching and pull her to me.....
After a while friends called her and i grabbed hands and said "stay her..." she send this....


HB: Give me a reson to stay...... (I suppose was someking of anti slut defense...)



With what could i survived this ? What are some good ways of winning this ? Anyone has passed throught something similar ?




Sugestions are welcomed

Did she text you while she was at the location with you?

I think that was enough of an indicator to throw your head in to the danger zone for a kiss.

I would have walked up to her and said "I got your message" she might have said "Yeah, and?"
You kiss her. "how about that?"

How about that?

Ups, let me clear this up...... when i said she send me this..... i meant (she said, replied saying...)





Excuse me for the bad english as im not a english born......





So was it a anti slut mechanism Or a A IDI , and how should i responded ? (I remind the she wasnt so attractive, so i was just in it to try to learn what was happening....or maybe a FC...)

That sounded like an IOI if she was sincere with it. You probably could of kissed her (If i'm reading that right)

At that point she probably thought you were interesting and maybe even attracted, but you didn't escalate fast enough or you didn't isolate her from her friends soon enough so you could properly escalate.

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Two words: Carpe Diem

This sounds about right. I would only leave the part where you say anything. Just approach her, and really slowly pull her to yourself and let the tension build and then kiss her.

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I have to return some videotapes...

Hold her 2 hands, look her right in the eye, put her hands on ur shoulders and ur hands on her waist, go in for the kiss.

"A reason to stay? Are you kidding me...The bulls are playing tonight!" If she refuses, continue with:
"How 'bout five bucks? I know it's not enough, and I would've given you ten, but I need to save money for our next meeting...and I have to buy a dildo (look down as if you're ashamed). You know what? Since you're such a big Bulls fan, I'm gonna give you those five bucks and the dildo (say that with a big smile on your face)."

I just remembered another great solution. Not sure if I would be comfortable with doing this, but still...

Girl: Give me a reason to stay.
Guy: Give your hand.

Take your dick out and put it in her hand and enjoy the moment.

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I have to return some videotapes...

That would be ideal! But easier said than done, you'd have to be a total badass with your confidence. If I had a wingman offer me $5 and a dildo if I attempted it I'd have enough confidence.

Easier said than done. But its alot easier to do if you just don't think about it next time, sack up, and DO IT! Girls like kissing man. Not only COULD you have kissed her... You SHOULD have... and then walked away.

You said stay right there. She said give me a reason. BAM! You did. Now... You'll be back.