Hey i'm Pippe from Mexico city. Im 18 and got really interested in becoming a PUA.

I am a shy guy, and get nervous when talking to new girls, I am confortable with girls that I already know. Friends tell me that they want to hook up with me but every time a trie I fail somewhere when im talking or being with them i get lost and they loose interest. When I approach to a new set my words or routines go blank. No girlfriends yet, every time I am about to get serious i have been friend zoned. I am glad I found this forum because I am hoping that you can help me out.

My real problem is that I have a lot of trouble opening to new girls, I have been reading about the mystery method, The Game by Style and been researching and watching a lot of videos.I hope you can help me out on how to open to sets, and closing the girls in my opinion I do most of it correct except when closing, maybe is the lack of IOI's.

I am really happy to get started in these community and become a PUA.


I could have some advice for these one, I used to hang out a lot with a girl ( a 9) she would give my IOI's all night, wanted to kiss me be very flirty with me always laughing at what I said and wanting to do thing together. i saw her as a friend, but all my friends started to pressure me to hook up with her so.. we were on school break and decided to go for it, we are at the night club at the bar talking I leaned agains the wall with my legs a little open and she came close to me between my legs kept on talking, then i went for it and she moved back I used the line from The Game book, wow I thought you wanted to kiss me why did you move ? she answered I do but what will it become after this we are Friends. So here is where I screwed up I said well we can try to be something more after these work it out thats when she blanked out. She did not respond even when I asked her. Until we left she said she would think about it.
Next day at the beach acted as if it was all normal grabbed her phone and read a text, "my best friend just declared to me and i cannot see him more than a friend." and I crashed, she has not known I read it talked to her after and said the same thing on the text, acted surprised but she wanted remain friends. I kept insisting every time I saw her at a night club that if she wanted to try it or loose the friendship, she said she didn't se me more than friends. She Told me she had lost already two friends the same way. That was on November.

In conclusion I do not talk to her anymore, she sometimes want to talk and be the same as before. I ignore it, friends have talked to her and she says that im one of the guys she misses the most. We are going on generation trip and I want want to know your advice to make her want me.

What openers should I use with her ? should I do it when she is tipsy in the nightclub or at the beach on the afternoon.

I am open to all your opinions.

bro this is in my opinion your trouble. you're not being an alfa male. be more agressive. dont ask permission and assume the close.

like for example, dont say if you guys have any time!! asume we fucking have it, otherwise we wouldnt be here bro haha and if we dont have the time we just wont answer, but overpoliteness can be interpreted as weakness

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Thanks chambers, I gotta work on that