Hey guys! So I usually have no issue approaching girls that I would potentially want to date, thankfully I've gotten past the approach anxiety stage. The other day in school (in a college), I noticed this girl that is absolutely angelic. Just amazing. We have the same lunch hour in the cafeteria, and she usually sits a few tables away from where I sit.

Now usually I would walk over, sit down and make small talk, but she is always with 2 or 3 friends. Usually one of them is a guy also (I don't think it's a boyfriend, I think he's gay). The only times I've approached a girl when she's with her friends was in the smoking area at clubs, where it's not too difficult to make small talk and then direct the conversation at her and go from there. This one is much trickier though. At clubs I could care less if I strike out, or fuck up, because either way it was good practice. I really don't want to mess this one up though.

What do you guys recommend, should I just randomly sit down with her group, and direct the conversation towards her? Would that be too awkward? I'd love any input from the pros on here!

I also see her walking by herself in the hallways sometimes, I think that would be easier. I'm just not sure of a good opener when she's on her way somewhere.

Hey,

Though you're right, but you gotta be relax more, go talk to group, doesn't necessarily have to be the girl alone. That way she will see that you are not intimidated by others and especially if you chat up her friends, she'll kinda want to join in and push more to talk to you, this way you'll get her to do the first move.

Just an idea, wrong or right, still an idea

Rob

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That's a good idea, I'm going to have to ponder that one. Thanks Rob!

Do some research on social circle game. That's the best way to handle most school situations and pick up.

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Definitely, will do man thanks. Any places you recommend getting the info from? Looks like theres a lot of good Youtube vids on that.