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its so easy to misinturpret negs. Negs are meant to put you and your target on the same ground once you have rapport built. For example, she may think youre funny but unless your value is equal to or higher to hers, high school or not youre in the ljbf zone. A neg would say "hey, im just as cool as you are maybe cooler."
People that point out harsh, almost insulting things are doing it wrong. A true neg is subtle, something like *did you know your nose wiggles when you laugh, its so cute* thats it.
Usually in high school and most school settings its about social circle gaming, but since youre just at a bus stop its about striking up a good conversation and you couldn't ask for a more isolated target.
Btw you need kino if youre trying to escalate. If you plan on eventually going somewhere with this girl then go ahead and throw in some light touching when the convo reaches a high point.
Im not really in the friend zone with her. Not in any zone, really. thanks for all the advice about kino, and conversation by the way
Edit: Ohhhh I get what you're saying now. Yeah great advice bro, thanks again.