Hey Guys,

So I've been hanging out with this girl for about a month. We've been on a few dates, hung out a bunch in larger social settings (same social circle) made out a bunch, got naked at her place once early on but she resisted and we didn't fuck. I've definitely escalated sexually and expressed my interest in ripping her clothes off ha. At the end of the night though she always says she wants to get to know me better before having sex with me even though she tells me how attracted she is to me. I never lose my shit even though it's frustrating as fuck.

One night I told her that I didn't really see us having a romantic future together and she lost it-- crying, kissing me and shit. I've reached the end of my patience with this--the other night after we parted ways she starts texting me super explicit sex stuff and calls me begging for phone sex. I resist at first but eventually have phone sex with her. But the next night we are hanging out and I tell her to come over and sleep over and she says she doesn't want to "confuse" things. WTF.

A little background on her--she got out of an eight year relationship about 10 months ago and I'm pretty sure she's only had sex with a few guys whereas I've had sex with about 50 chicks and have developed a reputation as a player in our social circle. I'm 26 and shes about to turn 31.

Anyway, I've been freezing her out for the past three days. No contact, she texts and fb messages me a bunch and I refuse to respond. At this point I don't even want a relationship with her b/c after all this I can only imagine what kind of nightmare it would be to date her. But I still want to smash. Don't know where to go from here. And please spare me the "forget about this basket case" replies. Thanks guys.

OK so now last night she sent me a really long string of texts that were really desperate--but she kept saying stuff like "I thought we were becoming friends because I think you're a really nice person". Not sure where to go from here.

You should stop your freeze-out... You're just needlessly punishing her.

What are you trying to achieve? To solely dip your dick in her vagina? Then out of respect for her you should let her know you can't do a relationship. If she's fine with that, then continue to escalate on her... I'm sure she would eventually open the gates.

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