| Hello!
I was seeing a girl for just under 2 months, we had a thing with no title. I knew that she had been heartbroken about 4 months ago before we started our thing. I thought she would have been over him by then, but it was her first love. She was my type, cute, smart and easy to talk with. So things were going good for about a month and a half. She is a virgin, so the furthest I could get with her was taking her top off/bra off and touching her vag over her clothes. I escalated and dealt with LMR the best I could. I was also comforting as she is a virgin.
About 2 weeks ago she told me that her ex wanted to get back together with her as he probably heard about me fooling around with her.. She told me that she was really confused about what she wanted, she said that she liked me and at the time I was oblivious at the fact she probably still loved her ex. So from there, we both agreed that she needed some time to get over her feelings. Later that night, I was getting help with social media, randomly.. There were girls saying they couldn't wait to see me and buddies were saying stuff like 'Can't wait to go this "event!" So later that night, she texted me saying "I HAVEN'T MADE THE RIGHT DECISION HAVE I?" I responded with "No, you are just confused, give it some time." I then no longer texted her for a day or two until she re opens a convo.
After this, we go on a roller coaster of emotions, both of us, she said that she liked me but just doesn't want commitment etc etc. I posted a DHV status on twitter that said "Girls only meet the parents because they need to walk past the living room." She then replied in another tweet, "You're a douche." I told her it wasn't directed at her nor was it made to make her feel "bad, or crumby in her words," this was on a car ride we took together. So I then asked her to be my girlfriend, I went totally AFC as I was super confused with my emotions and I liked her. I told her to give it some time. Oh and I am pretty sure her best friend hates me because of that tweet.
She texted me later that night (this was about a week ago) asking if I was mad, I told her I wasn't. She then went onto disqualifying herself saying I should find someone who doesn't have so many issues and getting into a relationship shouldn't be this hard, etc etc. So I was pretty upset at the time, I responded with "K" and deleted her number etc etc.
I have read other threads on here similar to mine, they all say be distant, cold, but be friendly! So my question is, should I tell her on facebook that I respect her and want to be friends with her and then be really distant (but so we are on 100% good terms) or continue NC? I know for a fact she is going to get hurt by her ex, I see her status updates on social media all the time..
Oh and for the record, I have been gaming other chicks, girls have been posting stuff on my social media and they have uploaded a few party pics with me in them.
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