Hi Guys,
I kinda like spanking girls
I would like to hear your opinion how to actually incorporate this kind of sex-game into foreplay without having a "big talk" about it. At the moment I incorporate just light funny spanks, when my FB is "naughty" , but actually I wanna put her over my knee and smack her little butt till it´s nicely red. How does a PUA incorporate that into foreplay?
With my last FB I just told her about it, but it felt kind of akward telling her this. I would like to have a more "cool" way to incorporate this. I also would like to know, if anybody knows how to get the girl to be able to "suffer" more and harder spanks. Any ideas?

Besides that I like it the other way round, too, but I´m not sure if it´s such a good idea to bring this up? There are quite few women, who could imagine spanking their boyfriend and I think it´s not really an attraction pusher , but if there´s a good way to be able to incorporate it into love making I would definitely like that.
Thanks for replies

interesting

Spanking fetish is quite normal for lots of girls, especially those who grew up in the era of C.P. in schools and from parents. If you had to choose one out of the two, do you prefer to spank or be spanked? If you prefer to spank girls, don't ask, just do it while you are dogging her. If you're fucking her right, she won't give a shit. You can normally tell the girls who like to be spanked, they tend to be the more submissive shy types.

If you want to be spanked, build up enough comfort with a girl until you've got to the point where straight sex is boring and just suggest it, role reversal can be interesting sometimes. It's not for me, but hey, whatever rocks your boat.

Don´t prefer either spank the girl or be spanked. If I fuck her doggy style I already slap her ass, but that´s not the same like putting her over my knee.

"If you want to be spanked, build up enough comfort with a girl until you've got to the point where straight sex is boring and just suggest it, role reversal can be interesting sometimes. It's not for me, but hey, whatever rocks your boat."
good idea, but I don´t think Rammstein would be so appropiate for this girl, she´s rather the "nice girl"

Make her cum and while she's high on dopamine you can do what you want.

As for getting spanked, hell, put your ass up in the air and yell: SPANK ME YOU BITCH.

-.- I think men shouldnt be submissive.

"I think men shouldn´t be submissive" and every girl I would like to fuck, should fuck with me, Bambi shouldn´t die and everybody should have enough money and free time...
but that´s not how the world works, I´m afraid
I really would like to be just a dominant guy, that would be much easier but have to cope with that