Timing is very important. Whenever I go out, ready to hit on girls, I was waiting and waiting looking for a chance. But at the end, no girl shows up....

On the other hand, whenever I go out, not having the right mood, not even thinking about approaching any girls. BAM! there comes a HB smiling at me! but too bad I'm not in the mood, or I might be in a hurry to get to somewhere. And thats how I miss a lot of good chances....

How to have the right mindset to be ready for approach 100% of the time?

PS: I am talking about places like the gym, coffee shop or campus. Not in a club setting cuz there will always be HB in the club

I am too intoxicated too assess this situation. Or even understand what the question is.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

Be able to "turn it on" when ever you NEED it.

What I mean, when you find yourself wanting to approach but just "not in the right mood," FORCE yourself to interact. But don't go out saying "alright, I'm gonna pull some ass tonight." Just always be ready to OPEN... Let yourself talk and see what happens. No expectations. You may fuck up at first but whats cool is, I've noticed that once I open, I automatically kick myself into gear... Drop the clutch, throw it in second, next thing you know... I'm cruisin'.

Force yourself to open and then let your trained mind take over with what knowledge you already have... Let the traction control kick in and stop worrying about burning up the tires a little!

Hope the analogy helps lol

Lol, you would have to be a car guy to understand that... fortunately I am one

......And they always told me being a gear head would never pay off lol

3 second rule, don't hesitate, open your mouth and start a conversation.

The moment an HB is smiling at you is the moment you say HI !

Simple!

always be in the mindset from the minute you wake up to the moment you go to bed with a women. it's a lifestyle, always have fun, you'll never know when your times up. Just go for it.

what would be the "mindset"?