Hi all, I just registered on this forum after reading through a number of threads trying to find out for myself this girls intentions.

Basically, I knew this girl and we used to be friends about 6 years ago. Just met her again last saturday at a bar and we talked for a bit, got a few drinks, held hands briefly but then I lost her.

Next morning, she texted me (I hadn't given her my number) and we've been texting every day since (for the past week until today) and we've both been flirting. She started texting with 2 x's then went up to 3 now shes been putting like 4 or 5 on some. I found out she got my number by asking one of my mates for it...

I just checked her facebook page and realised she has a boyfriend. She hasn't mentioned this despite all the flirting etc we've done.

What do you think her intentions are? Given that she asked for my number, and shes been flirting, i'm thinking that I might be in... but then again she has a boyfriend, but hasn't mentioned it. Should I ask her out? Just casually for a drink or something as friends and then depending on how it goes, maybe make a move?

Any advice from you guys? I'm new to all this and don't really know what to think of this situation

Boyfriends don't matter at all, unless they're in the honeymoon phase, which is clearly not the case here.

For fuck's sake don't bring it up to her. You checked her Facebook and did this to yourself, you could have just hooked up and had fun but now you have a boyfriend-virus floating around your head...because you checked!

Forget about him, don't mention him and continue as you would have done before you found out.

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agreed with last post but be careful some girls are just insecure and want to talk to know they
CAN have more guys. attention whores. dont invest too much time or emotion on any girl with a bf or any girl who flakes often.

Her intention is to suck your dick. Pretty simple. Unless you fuck up majorly, you shouldn't have a problem getting it sucked.

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Thanks guys. So you think I should just ask her out and see where it goes? No harm in trying eh. Won't waste any time chasing if she says no though