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Just thought I’d share some material that I ve used with some success online.
First the profile, I had previously used the classic nice guy profile, which was useless as hell. Then I came across a recording of Style advising you use try and be the biggest jerk and really hype it up. So after that my profile looked like this:
"I m a completely selfish jerk and I do what I want, when he want. You've probably already guessed that by now though. So there's none of this "ah baby, what do you want to do tonight?" stuff. If that's what you re into, look elsewhere, maybe your local pet store has a selection of love sick puppies you can choose from. Although, the twenty or so cats you have at home might have something to say about that.
I m an active guy and I expect the same of anyone who's trying to convince me to be there friend. So I look forward to your pitch."
This is a good way of differentiating yourself from all the other guys only, as most use the nice guy approach. They also put too on much information about what they do, what they are looking for, etc. The site I am on, they ask you to put your income and job type, so I put that I was a house wife earning over £100 000 a year. The main thing is to be mysterious.
You ll find that a lot of girls will just message you because they can't believe you are actual such a prick. Generally the way I respond to their first message is just by saying "seriously you re not my type". When they ask why, you say stuff like "you re too much of a good girl" or "We would fight all the time & I would win". I found that the first few messages you have to be an absolute dick head & constantly get them to jump through your hoops. Word of advice the hotter the girl the more of a dick you have to be. When she is at breaking point (usually when she call's you a looser & say's you would be lucky to be with a girl like her). Then you say something like "wow, I was just messing. You really are nt used to people who can challenge you and are a bit playful." Really make it sound like she is out of order and socially week. Then you change to the intelligent guy, who wants to know the real her. This is done by running the cube on her or something similar. She will be intrigued because maybe there is more to you than the arsehole she thought you were. You should also mix in a lot of cocky comedy and constantly take the piss out of her. She will generally respond by taking the piss out of you in a playful way. Then you tell her that her profile needs some work, because it has to score 20 points to get your number (also from Style). Needless to say there is no actual scoring method. All you want to see is if she changes it. If you think she is really into you, make her change it once or twice more. When you give her you re number, she will generally give you hers as well. When you call her, say congrats on scoring 20 points, then be the intelligent guy mixed with the cocky comedy and arrange to meet for a drink some time. Now if she does n't change her profile, not to worry. Just do n't message her for about a week, she will see that you are online probably chatting to other girls and not bothered if she messages you or not. She will usually message you, if not send her a message (after a week remember) with a little nick name like "Hey trouble, it's been a while". In each case you do the intelligent guy mixed with cocky comedy bit but tell her you don't really have time to be online like this all the time and say you'd like to meet up for a drink, so you can see if she is quick with the come back's in person. Give her your number and then excuse yourself. She will either give you her number. In which case you call her latter the next day or two to set up a date.
I had a date with a woman (about an eight) last week & one of the first things she said to me was that she usually does n't go for younger guys but she just had to meet me because she's never been spoken to like that before . So I know that this works.
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