Okay I just started thinking about this HB9 blonde girl I know in my dorm. Basically I'm thinking that I've missed very obvious IOIs and I wanted some feedback before I try to bang this chick.

She laughs at a lot of shit I say
She smiles at me whenever we talk
She seemed to be really... hurt, I guess would be the word, when I hinted that I might not like the way her dyed hair looked
She's sort of seductively shown me her bra before (there's a story behind it, but let's just leave it at that because that's the important part.)

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I'm new here but I'll try and give you some help:

1 and 2: She's receptive and likes your presence, also likes the way you two interact - GOOD
3: That was good, she's concerned about what you think of her, in my not-so-experienced opinion, thats a solid IOI
4: What was the actual scenario she was showing it to you? was it at a frat party? you two were alone? some kind of truth or dare with booze game? I also think thats pretty good for IOI

My advice is: keep it light and funny, build that up with kino and go for it!

I nearly started a thread tonight on how I'm starting to think IOIs are a bunch of crap. All that counts is that you're getting compliance and not resistance. Even resistance isn't necessarily that big a problem, but if you're getting compliance then fuck everything else. Fuck what she said or didn't say. Just escalate until you hit resistance and deal with it accordingly.

I had a fucking great night last but I blew it with a girl because I wasted my time waiting around for a clear IOI rather than making an overtly sexual move.

Read 60 Years of Challenge, particularly the bit on "relentless escalation". I'm starting to think that's 50% of game. The other 50% is social skills.

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Thanks for the feedback and as for the actual scenario on 4, well we were alone in her room and we were talking before she was leaving for a party. I caught her as she was picking out what to wear and the shirt we was wearing was open so I say: "Nice bra" with my usual confident funny tone. So she pulls it open her shirt a bit more and kinda gives me this look (hard to describe but I think anyone who knows women knows this look). I didn't notice anything then, but I just ran through it in my head and I should've done something then.

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Well my previous advice stands.

Just make sure now that you wanna hook up with her youre not following her around all the time, also invest in other groups, that should draw some of her attention, make sure you often speak to her and draw good convo but dont make her a priority yet.

Alright bruv, I'm half way through 60yoc and it's already a game changer for me! Definitely agree 100% with escalating! Fuck IOI's, most girls are biological sluts who flirt with every guy they talk to, so these magic signs don't mean jack. You are not special. Until the girls says "NO!", slaps you in the face, kicks you in the balls, throws a drink in your face or gives you an LJBF speech, it's ON!