okay, before I got kicked out of here I want to say that I'm a girl and I would like to know if there is a problem with that, I'm new in the seduction area, I just found PUA recently and I really wanted to know more about it. I know this is all for men specifically but I believe it works more or less in the same way for a woman, although I found it a little more harder for me because all of the prejudgement. Yes, I am lesbian and I want to seduce girls but I have no idea how to start it... a little help?

Butch or fem? PM me if you like

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femme... really really femme, in fact I've never really been with a girl, though I want it so much and have been in love with so many times, I can never act the right way, that's why I need help...

Where do you feel your struggling? And are you a virgin then?

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must of all talking with women, I guess I have the tipical shy guy's problem, whenever I see an atractive woman and I go try to talk to her I just can't keep a dialogue, and I start to get really nervous and stuttering and stuff.. No, I'm not a virgin, I've been with a few men, I just never feel that sexual atraction with them, in fact I think I didn't feel anything whenever I was with a man, unless with my actual boyfriend, but that's just because I love him very much, but I still feel that something is missing in my life

I get the feeling your issues are confidence, and doubt.

Your in a tough spot sexually, I personally think you may be Bi, not just gay.

Is part of your trouble spotting a girl that may be receptive to your advances?

IOIs are almost concisely un-fake-able. no matter who you are.

I know and have "dated" Bi women. and have a couple of very butch friends.

And trust me... there are PLENTY of women that want to fulfill that for themselves.

Have you talked to your BF about a threesome? He could easily be your wing? Hell I know I would LOL.

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wow, I guess you hit all the spots... I'm not sure if I am Bi, since I never feel atraction or interess for men, but that's not really relevant in fact.
I think my biggest fear is being humiliated because for some reason I always fall/get interessed for straight girls and I guess that takes down my confidence, but I know that it's all psychologic and all these insecurities are in my head
And yeah, my BF is Bi but honestly I could never have a threesome with her xD Not that she isn't cute or hot, I just can't, we have a really strong bond since we were little girls, she's like a sister to me, it will be so weird..
But do you really think I would have chances with hetero girls?

Simple answer: Yes I do!

Here is some suggestions,

Go out with a group of girls,

If your all hot, lots of guys will be trying to pry their wieners into the group.

PERFECT!

Tell the men loudly and boldly your all a bunch of Lezbo's out for a group carpet fest! They will think your the cock-block hero!

When you bring this topic to the table they must react somehow. If someone seems a little repulsed you better stop speaking, because there is a great chance she is not either gay, bisexual or "open minded" and she might not enjoy talking about this kind of things.

You will be able to tell who is receptive.

Make her/them feel comfortable talking about it. Tell her how much you respect gay and bisexual people and how many friends you have that are bisexual. Let her know that you think it is okay and that she/they can trust you.

Start picking out your target with eye contact.
Make sure they think you are not being sarcastic. Tell her straight that it's fine with you and that you will stand by her all the way.
Tell her that you honestly have no problem with it.

Get some Jager-shots flowing.

Ask what she thinks about kissing another girl, has she ever? In a subtle way try to introduce the question while you are telling her about your gay/bi friends. If she tells you she has no problem with gay people and that she actually respect them you are good to go.

Some dancing and grinding in between.

Make sure she didn't say she was okay with it just because she was being polite. Tell her that you think this is a topic you really have interest in and that you actually enjoy talking about it, even trying it, but that does not mean you can’t tolerate someone that thinks differently. Make her feel free to tell you how she really feels about it. If she isn't really o.k talking about this you better stop and leave it that way. If she is fine you may want to try the next step.

Try telling her that you have been wondering how it is like to be with another girl. Do in a subtle way, like making conversation, tell her how hot that would be, like trying to be funny, then see how she reacts. That might lead her to tell you if she has been with another girl or if she has intention to.

This is VERY important!

Make sure you can seal the deal! Like a guy picking up a girl. You can't get her all amp-ed up then drop the ball.

I have an extremely hot bi gf/fwb this is how I see what is going on.

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Geez.. Thank you so so much this helped me a lot ! I cant wait to try all of that I get a feeling Im going To have So Much fun (: oh and if there is anyway I can help you just say it I know that Im a newbie but I m here to learn and to give My contribution , peace *

Pretty useful ideas here! Of course you could also try dating sites Sam, because you can write without fear, and girls gather there who share the same fantasy.