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PostPosted: Wed Mar 06, 2013 3:38 am 
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I met this girl at my job on Saturday (friend of our owners, I sell cars - he gave me her to help out as a customer). She is absolutely gorgeous and very nice - has exactly the look and personality I want in a woman. Has very similar mindset and attitude about life that I do - the bodytype I want and everything. Pretty much as good as it gets (at least from what I can see from the outside). She even has the same attitude about work that I do


Anyways, I help her out for 2 hours and everything goes great - I ran about as good of a game as I've ever ran, my attitude is just near perfect (I'm friendly, confident, nice, funny, make her work for my attention, act like I'm the prize, etc...). After she leaves, I text her to see if she wants to hang out sometime and she says yes - says that I'm very nice and she enjoyed working with me quite a bit, she would like to hang out sometimes.


On Monday, I text her some stuff about work - I find out she's going to keep her current car and not go with ours (which is perfectly fine). I talk to her about some personal stuff and she is very responsive and very interested - responds quickly to all my texts and seems to reciprocate similar interest. I ask her to see if she has some freetime this weekend and she says that she's going to be in Chicago the whole weekend. I text her an hour later with "Ok, what day works for you?". My friends at work convinced me to do that as I wasn't sure what to text her next. She hasn't responded since that point (it's been about a day and a half now). It seems like I hit some kind of a wall


Is this a completely hopeless situation? Is there even any point in me texting her next week? Is her lack of response just a sign that she's not really interested in me? What did I do wrong here? I hate to sound like I'm putting the pussy on the pedestal here but it's just so damn rare to find a girl equivalent of myself - somebody who looks really good, who is smart, nice and is a hard worker/successful as well


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 06, 2013 5:14 am 
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I met this girl at my job on Saturday (friend of our owners, I sell cars - he gave me her to help out as a customer). She is absolutely gorgeous and very nice - has exactly the look and personality I want in a woman. Has very similar mindset and attitude about life that I do - the bodytype I want and everything. Pretty much as good as it gets (at least from what I can see from the outside). She even has the same attitude about work that I do


Anyways, I help her out for 2 hours and everything goes great - I ran about as good of a game as I've ever ran, my attitude is just near perfect (I'm friendly, confident, nice, funny, make her work for my attention, act like I'm the prize, etc...). After she leaves, I text her to see if she wants to hang out sometime and she says yes - says that I'm very nice and she enjoyed working with me quite a bit, she would like to hang out sometimes.


On Monday, I text her some stuff about work - I find out she's going to keep her current car and not go with ours (which is perfectly fine). I talk to her about some personal stuff and she is very responsive and very interested - responds quickly to all my texts and seems to reciprocate similar interest. I ask her to see if she has some freetime this weekend and she says that she's going to be in Chicago the whole weekend. I text her an hour later with "Ok, what day works for you?". My friends at work convinced me to do that as I wasn't sure what to text her next. She hasn't responded since that point (it's been about a day and a half now). It seems like I hit some kind of a wall


Is this a completely hopeless situation? Is there even any point in me texting her next week? Is her lack of response just a sign that she's not really interested in me? What did I do wrong here? I hate to sound like I'm putting the pussy on the pedestal here but it's just so damn rare to find a girl equivalent of myself - somebody who looks really good, who is smart, nice and is a hard worker/successful as well
Bad case of oneitis man, you need to game other girls NOW you are way to focused on this one girl. Being focused on one girl doesn't do you any good as you start stressing over everything that you do or think you should've done with the girl. I wouldn't text her back for at least a couple of weeks or so since you don't want to look to needy and when you finally do text keep it short and try to set up something 1 on 1 with her


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 06, 2013 2:02 pm 
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Bad case of oneitis man, you need to game other girls NOW you are way to focused on this one girl. Being focused on one girl doesn't do you any good as you start stressing over everything that you do or think you should've done with the girl. I wouldn't text her back for at least a couple of weeks or so since you don't want to look to needy and when you finally do text keep it short and try to set up something 1 on 1 with her
I understand

Still I wanted some feedback. What did I do wrong to make her lose interest?


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 06, 2013 2:41 pm 
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Definitely sarge other girls, so you arent thinking to much bout this one. Wait a while and on the next text, dont ask, tell her where and when to meet you for a 1-on-1.


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 06, 2013 4:30 pm 
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I met this girl at my job on Saturday (friend of our owners, I sell cars - he gave me her to help out as a customer). She is absolutely gorgeous and very nice - has exactly the look and personality I want in a woman. Has very similar mindset and attitude about life that I do - the bodytype I want and everything. Pretty much as good as it gets (at least from what I can see from the outside). She even has the same attitude about work that I do


Anyways, I help her out for 2 hours and everything goes great - I ran about as good of a game as I've ever ran, my attitude is just near perfect (I'm friendly, confident, nice, funny, make her work for my attention, act like I'm the prize, etc...). After she leaves, I text her to see if she wants to hang out sometime and she says yes - says that I'm very nice and she enjoyed working with me quite a bit, she would like to hang out sometimes.


On Monday, I text her some stuff about work - I find out she's going to keep her current car and not go with ours (which is perfectly fine). I talk to her about some personal stuff and she is very responsive and very interested - responds quickly to all my texts and seems to reciprocate similar interest. I ask her to see if she has some freetime this weekend and she says that she's going to be in Chicago the whole weekend. I text her an hour later with "Ok, what day works for you?". My friends at work convinced me to do that as I wasn't sure what to text her next. She hasn't responded since that point (it's been about a day and a half now). It seems like I hit some kind of a wall


Is this a completely hopeless situation? Is there even any point in me texting her next week? Is her lack of response just a sign that she's not really interested in me? What did I do wrong here? I hate to sound like I'm putting the pussy on the pedestal here but it's just so damn rare to find a girl equivalent of myself - somebody who looks really good, who is smart, nice and is a hard worker/successful as well
If I had to say something you did wrong its probably what I bolded. In that you made yourself to available its obvious in that text your planning stuff around here which is really beta. You should've sent something playful like I "Too bad you won't get to hang around the best this weekend" Something like that gives her the message that YOU are the prize not her and your life doesn't revolve around her.


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